Palm Springs does things its own way, which becomes obvious pretty quickly when you start looking for traditional gay saunas. They don't really exist here – at least not in the way you'd find them in San Francisco or Los Angeles. Instead, this desert city built something maybe better: clothing-optional men's resorts where day passes let you experience pools, steam rooms, and jacuzzis without booking a room. The whole setup means more mingling, more spontaneous connections, and honestly, more fun than being locked inside a dark bathhouse when it's sunny and 85 degrees outside.
Vista Grande Resort sits about a mile south of downtown in the Warm Sands district and consistently gets mentioned as the most popular spot. Three pools, a bathing lagoon, an 18-man hot tub, and a steam room spread across grounds that feel surprisingly spacious. Day passes run reasonable prices, and the crowd varies enough that you're not stuck with only one type – younger guys, older guys, locals, tourists, all mixing together under the desert sun. The resort just went through renovations that kept the retro Palm Springs aesthetic while making everything feel fresh.
About the same distance from the action, All Worlds Resort became famous for its Sunday pool parties, though really any weekend brings crowds. The property includes a 24-hour heated pool, hot tub, outdoor showers, plus indoor and outdoor mazes for when you want something more private. They offer day passes, night passes, and weekend passes – that last one includes the BBQ pool party which gets packed during Pride weekend. The grounds sprawl enough that you can find quiet corners or join the party atmosphere depending on your mood.

Cathedral City, Palm Springs' southern neighbor, hosts CCBC Resort (Cathedral City Boys Club), which bills itself as the largest clothing-optional gay men's resort in the United States. Those 3.5 acres aren't just for show – there's genuinely space to roam across multiple pools, hot tubs, four indoor playrooms, and a military-themed play area. They run monthly CumUnion parties plus various fetish weekends throughout the year, drawing guys specifically interested in that scene. The resort even has its own restaurant and bar, Runway, serving food and drinks with live entertainment.
If you're craving actual traditional sauna culture, your closest options sit in Los Angeles or San Diego. American bathhouse culture never caught on quite like it did internationally, so most U.S. cities lack the facilities you'd find in Vienna or Bangkok. Palm Springs compensates with CLUB541, the city's newest sex club that opened recently and immediately became popular. Unlike the resort model, this operates as a dedicated play space for when the sun goes down and you want something more focused.
The leather crowd gravitates toward Tool Shed, Palm Springs' original leather and Levi bar since 1993 in the Warm Sands district. Daily happy hour runs from 10 AM to 8 PM (yes, really), with themed nights including bingo on Tuesdays and Saturdays, underwear night Thursdays, and cruise night Fridays. It's called "the best dive bar in Palm Springs" for good reason – unpretentious, slightly rough around the edges, exactly what some guys want after too many polished experiences elsewhere. The Barracks in Cathedral City served similar clientele for decades before rebranding as Eagle Cathedral City, continuing the legacy with bears, daddies, and leather guys.
What makes Palm Springs special beyond just the venues is how everything connects to the year-round events calendar. Pride happens in November – yeah, November, not June like most places – turning the entire city into a massive celebration. The 2024 festival ran November 1-3 with the theme "Be You," while 2025 expands to November 6-9 under "Be Heard." This Pride ranks as California's largest free Pride festival south of San Francisco, attracting crowds that pack every resort, bar, and pool party across the extended weekend.
The celebration kicks off Thursday with Día de la Reina (Day of the Queen), a block party with live music and performances. Friday brings the Arenas District Pride Kick-Off, transforming the city's unofficial gay district into one continuous street festival. Saturday and Sunday feature multiple stages across downtown, over 250 exhibitors, continuous entertainment, and the Sunday morning parade that steps off from the Uptown Design District and winds through downtown. Sister Sledge headlined the 2024 main stage, bringing their "We Are Family" anthem to thousands of people dancing on Palm Canyon Drive.
Between Pride weekends, the resorts host their own events – pool parties, themed nights, DJ sessions that blur into impromptu gatherings. Hunters Palm Springs on Arenas Road maintains its reputation as the premier gay dance club with go-go boys, drag shows, and all-day happy hour literally every day. Streetbar, the city's first gay bar operating for 35 years, anchors the Arenas District alongside Chill Bar with its nightly entertainment and international DJs. Toucans Tiki Lounge brings Christopher Kennedy-designed island vibes, while Quadz focuses on showtunes nights for Broadway fans.

The resort model works particularly well during events like Modernism Week each February, when the entire city celebrates mid-century modern architecture with tours, exhibits, and parties. Many resorts host special events during the week, creating this overlap between design enthusiasts and gay tourists that's very Palm Springs. White Party weekend, various circuit parties, bear weekends – the calendar stays full with reasons to visit beyond just lounging by the pool, though honestly, lounging by the pool while the desert sun bakes away whatever stress you brought from home remains pretty appealing.
Temperature matters when planning visits. Summer temperatures regularly hit 110°F, which sounds terrible but actually works if you spend days at the resorts dipping between pools and shade. November Pride happens during perfect weather – mid-70s to low 80s with clear skies and cool evenings ideal for the street festivals. Winter months (December through February) bring snowbirds and Canadian tourists escaping their weather, keeping the city busy year-round.
Getting around requires awareness since Palm Springs sprawls more than it appears. Most clothing-optional resorts cluster around Warm Sands Drive about a mile south of downtown, walkable if you don't mind desert heat but easier via rideshare. Arenas Road bars sit close together, perfect for bar-hopping on foot. Cathedral City venues require driving or ridesharing since they're separated from the main Palm Springs action.
The city's history as a Hollywood hideaway during the Golden Age created the liberal atmosphere that persists today. At least half of Palm Springs' residents identify as lgbtq+Q+, making it statistically America's gayest city in pure numerical terms. That demographic shows in how normal everything feels – rainbow flags year-round, queer couples everywhere, zero sense of needing to code-switch between gay spaces and regular spaces because most spaces are both.
So while Palm Springs might not have traditional gay saunas, it built something arguably better suited to desert living – outdoor resorts where clothing stays optional, day passes remove the pressure of overnight commitments, and the weather actually makes being outside more appealing than hiding in steam rooms. Combine that with November Pride, constant pool parties, leather bars for kinkier tastes, and CLUB541 for dedicated play space, and the result covers most of what people want from a gay sauna scene anyway, just with better tans and fewer damp towels.