Nearby tonight
Just outside town — within easy reach.
5:00
Berkeley · 14.7 km
boyz night
9:00
Berkeley · 14.7 km
LIGHTS OUT MONDAYS
19:00
Berkeley · 14.7 km
LGBTQ+ Singles Hike
19:00
Berkeley · 14.7 km
LGBTQ+ Singles Bon Fire
10:00
Oakland · 16.8 km
$1 Taco Tuesday & Karaoke + $20 Margarita Pitchers – RSVP
19:00
Oakland · 16.8 km
Improvising in the Style of Shakespeare with Diana Brown
19:30
Oakland · 16.8 km
Level 4 Improv Showcase & Level 5 Improv Graduation Show
12:00
G
12:00
– 14:00
Gay Men Speed Dating | San Francisco | Fancy a Go? | Singles Event
The Jay Hotel San Francisco
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12:00
– 14:00
San Francisco Gay Men Speed Dating | Singles Night | Fancy a Go?
The Jay Hotel San Francisco
13:00
19:00
After dark — cruising spots
Verified open-air and late-night cruising locations. Be discreet, respect the space and the people in it, and check local rules.
Buena Vista Park
Haight
San Francisco's oldest hilltop park and a long-standing after-dark gay cruising spot above the Haight.
Corona Heights Park
The Castro
Rocky Castro-adjacent hilltop with sweeping views and a discreet after-dark cruising history.
Lands End
Outer Richmond
Rugged coastal trail on the city's northwest edge with a long gay cruising tradition in its wooded side paths.
The Castro is the postcard, but tonight's action in San Francisco is just as likely in SoMa — home of the leather bars and the big club floors — or at a drag show in the Tenderloin. This page is the live edit: every confirmed event tonight from our calendar, updated every twenty minutes, with ticket links where the doors sell out and a running list of which bars are open right now. SF nights start deceptively early and the last call comes sooner than visitors expect, so check the times, grab what needs a ticket, and go.
How current is this page?
Listings come straight from the GayOut events calendar and refresh every twenty minutes. The "open now" list is computed from each venue's verified opening hours in San Francisco local time.
An event is missing?
Promoters and venues can add events free — approved listings appear here the same day.