Mother

There's this really nasty bartender who seems like she hates all men, even if part of the LGBTQ community. I'm a pan male but present more masculine, that shouldn't make her feel like she can be rude and disrespectful towards me.

Good beer on tap, and lots of wholesome queer punk energy. I've never ran into any haters here, just good vibes.

The white man at the door was so discriminatory. He started by asking if we knew what kind of bar it was and began to tell us how all men suck. He made so many assumptions about me and the people I was with. He was cold rude and mean. Very unwelcoming. He needs to remeber he is in the mission which is a brown neighborhood.

I went to this place because it was my sister’s birthday. They would not allow me in saying it was a ladies bar. I had went there the year before for my sister’s wife birthday. The bouncer was rude and kept saying I could not stand in front of the bar. I was standing there waiting for my sister and her wife to come. The bouncer during my waiting period allowed cis males to enter that she knew. After she kept turning away any group with men in it. Then the bartender and the bouncer cussed me out while I waited on the sidewalk for my sister and her wife to find parking. This place is toxic I would rather go to the DMV than this establishment.

Mother in the Mission is such a gem — one of those rare bars that gets everything right. The cocktails were outstanding — so flavorful, balanced, and genuinely fun to sip while catching up with friends. The ambience is what really sets it apart: a huge, airy room with a warm, welcoming vibe and a big screen playing movies that adds to the laid-back charm. It’s the kind of place that feels easy — no pretension, just good drinks, good company, and great energy. A perfect spot to unwind, connect, and feel completely at home. 🌈🍸

The server with the braids was so nice, gave me my modelo quickly and I tipped her accordingly. No complaints there. The dude checking IDs is also very sweet always. However, the girl with straight dark hair has a big attitude. I am a newly 21 girl and didn’t know you couldn’t bring your drink in front of the bar. I wouldn’t even have minded having my drink taken away if she had politely told me it wasn’t allowed. It was only $5 after all! She proceeded to accuse me of threatening the livelihood of a queer bar, as if I wasn’t a lesbian myself. She also asked me if I was from here, which why would that even matter? You’re lame for that haha. Didn’t appreciate that at all, I won’t be coming back again for solely that reason. The bar is always empty every time I peek in on weekends anyways so I don’t know why she’s driving away customers like this lmao. Very lame behavior girl get a grip!!!

Drinks and service were wonderful. I really wanted to like this place more but none of the toilets were working and they couldn't run the dishwasher due to a plumbing issue. All very unsanitary. Also cash only but they have an ATM. Hopefully they will have the plumbing fixed before we try again. We didn't want to leave early but we had to since there was not a functional bathroom. Update: it's fixed 🙌 🤗 and now I can just love the vibes.

Ehhh….my cocktail was 6/10

👎👎👎 Would have liked to try it out but they discriminate based on appearance and don't let certain people in based on how they look or identify. Racist, sexist and discriminatory. Don't know how this is allowed in 2025.