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211 upcoming events Nov 2026 – Jul 2027
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Nov · 260 Dec · 108 Jan 27 · 10 Feb 27 · 10 Mar 27 · 12 Apr 27 · 8 May 27 · 2 Jul 27 · 1
What All Club Night 37 Drag 30 Party 18 Cabaret 10 Live Show 9 Women / Sapphic 7
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Community 6 Free Entry 6 Comedy 5 Film Screening 5 Festival 1 Fetish 1

This weekend

Fri · 9:00 AM SKYY Bottle Service Special Fri · 11:00 AM Haut Box Drag Show Fri · 12:00 PM Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego - The Ultimate Drag Experience Fri · 1:00 PM Finger Me Friday

Tuesday, Nov 3 Tomorrow

14 events
3:00 Margarita and Mezcalita Specials at The Loft The Loft › 6:00 Happy Hour Gossip Grill › 6:00 Papi Hour at Baja Betty's Baja Betty's › 6:00 Tequila Tuesdays at SRO SRO Lounge › 9:00 $8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 9:00 Taco Tuesday at Baja Betty’s Baja Betty's › 10:00 Bitch Session at The Brass Rail The Brass Rail › 10:00 H Heather Hardcore & Guests The Rail,3796 Fifth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 11:00 Karaoke Tuesdays With Joey Adams gossipgrill.com › 11:30 Tiger's Pictionary and Late Night Karaoke at Number One Fifth Avenue Number One Fifth Avenue › 12:00 S Sanctuary DNB Tuesdays at EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 12:15 H HATHA FOUNDATIONS NAKED YOGA at Healing Space Ocean Beach Healing Space,2183 Bacon St, San Diego, CA 92107, USA › 19:00 Queer Recovery Dharma Gather Coffee and Kava › – Don L. Live! ›

Wednesday, Nov 4

23 events
3:00 Seltzer Special Wednesdays at The Loft The Loft › 6:00 Gonewild Wednesdays - Happy Hour at SRO Lounge SRO Lounge › 8:00 Fetish Wear Night at The San Diego Eagle San Diego Eagle › 9:00 Free HIV Testing at Club San Diego Club San Diego › 10:00 Bingo Gone Bonkers gossipgrill.com › 10:00 Dreamgirls Revue Urban MO’s › 10:00 B Burly Bear Yoga at AWOL Back Patio AWOL,1475 University Ave #1469, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 10:00 B Big Gay Trivia at Flicks Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 10:00 BOYTOY Wednesdays at Club San Diego Club San Diego › 11:00 Where to Be Wednesdays at Pecs Pecs Bar › 12:00 Dive Bar Wednesdays and Trivia at Number One Fifth Avenue Number One Fifth Avenue › 12:00 Detour Wednesdays at The Brass Rail The Brass Rail › 12:00 Whiplash Wednesdays at The Brass Rail ↳ The Brass Rail › 13:00 TGIW! gossipgrill.com › 13:00 D DRESS CODE Wednesdays at EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 13:00 W Welfare Wednesdays at Flicks Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 14:00 Mischief Rich's San Diego Free entry › 14:00 M Mischief Wednesdays at Rich's Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › – Red Dress Party San Diego › – Trivia Night The Clark Cabaret Free entry › – Popcorn + Pride: LGBTQ+ in Film Twisted Trivia › – Men’s Coming Out – Discussion Group (Virtual) › – Buy One Get One Lockers at Club San Diego Club San Diego ›

Thursday, Nov 5

27 events
3:00 Wine & Champagne Specials Thursday at The Loft The Loft › 6:00 Happy Hour The Gossip Grill › 6:00 Martini Thursdays at SRO Lounge! SRO Lounge › 9:00 Latinos Unidos – Spanish Support Group (In-Person) Latin@x Services at The Center Free entry › 9:00 W Wine About It - $8 Glasses of Wine at Uptown Tavern Uptown Tavern,1236 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 9:30 Phonebank with The Center – 2026 November Midterm Elections $50 › 10:00 $4 Thirsty Thursdays gossipgrill.com › 10:00 Trans Femme Support Group Free entry › 10:00 Karaoke Thursdays at the Brass Rail The Brass Rail › 10:30 On The Spot Dating Show: Sapphic Singles Event The Gossip Grill › 10:30 B Big Bear Bingo at AWOL AWOL,1475 University Ave #1469, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 10:30 J Jazz Night in the Cellar at Negociant Winery › 10:30 O Open Mic Night at Broker's Gallery Broker's Gallery,525 C St Suite 2, San Diego, CA 92101, USA › 11:00 B BITCHY BINGO Wednesdays at Lips Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA › 11:00 L Leather Unbarred at Kava Collective Kava Collective,1731 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 11:00 T The Divas! Thursdays at Lips Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA › 11:00 T The Traitors Watch Party at R Place R Place,1027 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 11:30 C CatHaus Burlesque & Pole Dance Revue at Rich's Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 12:00 BearUnion › 12:00 Pleasure Palace › 12:00 S Stand Up Comedy Showcase at Rocko's Modern Taphouse Rocko's Modern Taphouse,3940 Fourth Ave Ste 200, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 12:00 R Rod Steel’s Freaky Feud at The Rail The Rail,3796 Fifth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 13:00 Seance Drag Showcase at The Brass Rail The Brass Rail › 13:00 Bald Eagle Night at the SD Eagle San Diego Eagle › 13:00 P POP ROCKS at Rich's Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 13:00 R REVERB Thursdays at EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 13:00 T The Techno Jungle at ↳ EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA ›

Friday, Nov 6 Friday night

28 events
3:00 Beer Draft Special Fridays at The Loft The Loft › 4:00 Circle Jerk - $15 Lockers at Club San Diego Club San Diego › 4:00 P PS PRIDE Welcome Pool Party at the Ace Hotel (PALM SPRINGS) Ace Hotel & Swim Club Palm Springs,701 E Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92264, USA › 6:00 O Official Friday Pride Pool Party at the Palm Springs Surf Club (PALM SPRINGS) Palm Springs Surf Club,1500 S Gene Autry Trail, Palm Springs, CA 92264, USA › 6:00 Fab Fridays - Happy Hour at SRO Lounge SRO Lounge › 9:00 SKYY Bottle Service Special Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 9:00 T Thursday Night Football at Flicks Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 9:00 RMBL Gear's Sail Away Party at Pecs Pecs Bar › 9:00 Bears in the Woods Happy Hour at Pecs ↳ Pecs Bar › 9:00 H House Head & Flashback Friday at Urban MO's Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 10:00 T The San Diego Golden Girls at The Brass Rail The Rail,3796 Fifth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 10:00 S Sunset Social & Dance Club: Lesbians 40+ Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 11:00 Haut Box Drag Show gossipgrill.com › 11:00 G Glitz and Glam Fridays at Lips Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA › 12:00 Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego - The Ultimate Drag Experience The Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego › 12:00 S STAR LUST with DJ Shimmer Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 12:00 B Brut: Palm Springs Pride (PALM SPRINGS) - SOLD OUT - JOIN WAITING LIST The Sonoran Palm Springs,1555 S Palm Canyon Dr Unit B, Palm Springs, CA 92264, USA › 12:00 S Seduction Fridays at Flicks Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 13:00 Finger Me Friday gossipgrill.com › 13:00 Flogging Fridays at The Loft The Loft › 13:00 G Gaypeez Presents: Horseplay at Club Safeword › 13:00 E Electro Pop! at Rich's Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 13:00 R Rush Fridays at Flicks Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 13:30 J Jurassic Drag at the Palm Springs Cultural Center (PALM SPRING PRIDE) Palm Springs Cultural Center,2300 E Baristo Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262, USA › 14:00 L LED presents DENNETT [In The Round] Back to the Roadhouse Tour at EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 22:30 S San Diego Naked Yoga - (Steel Mace Flow) at Vinya Vino + Vinyasa San Diego,6185 Balboa Ave, San Diego, CA 92111, USA › – Pasión y Corazón: Our First Latinx Pageant › – Ecos del Mictlán ›

Saturday, Nov 7 Saturday

22 events
0:00 P Palm Springs Pride 5K Run + Walk West Chino Drive & Belardo Road,W Chino Dr & Belardo Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262, USA › 1:00 S Stitch N’ Bitch (Queer Craft Meet-Up) Lestat's › 2:30 D Dragalicious Brunch Saturdays at Lips Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA › 3:00 Bubbles for Brunch Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 3:00 S Smarty Pants Trivia Brunch at Gossip Grill Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 3:00 S Summer Tramp PS Pride Pool Party (PALM SPRINGS) Hotel Zoso,150 S Indian Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92262, USA › 3:00 Beer Bucket Special Saturdays at The Loft The Loft › 4:00 B Big Gay Field Day in Balboa Park Exact location given upon registration,Balboa Park › 4:00 Karaoke Saturdays at The Brass Rail The Brass Rail › 6:00 Lesbians of San Diego Staged Play Reading "Coming Out Stories" First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego › 6:00 Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 6:00 $10 Pitchers ↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50 › 6:30 Wine Club: Uncorked & Unhinged The Gossip Grill › 11:00 Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 12:00 CumUnion › 13:00 Sapphic Saturdays gossipgrill.com › 13:00 Bear Night NOV 7 EQ San Diego › 13:00 Red Hanky Play Party › 18:00 Robby Hoffman: Live On Tour The Observatory North Park › 18:00 Babette’s Bingo Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 20:00 FFOSD Monthly Play Party › – King of Drag – Watch Party ›

Sunday, Nov 8

10 events
8 NOV
3:00 AM

Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays

gossipgrill.com
Club Night
8 NOV
3:00 AM

Plezier Service

$25
8 NOV
3:00 AM

KPOP DRAG BRUNCH

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
8 NOV
6:00 AM

Sassy Sunday Funday

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Party Club Night
8 NOV
7:00 AM

69 BPM R&B Takeover: DJ Jocelin

gossipgrill.com
Club Night
8 NOV
10:00 AM

Karaoke Sunday

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Party
Free entry
F
8 NOV
11:00 AM

FRIENDSGIVING

Big Gay Picnic @ Balboa Park
8 NOV
1:00 PM

San Diego Gay Speed Dating for Soulmates

4067 47th St
8 NOV
6:00 PM

$6.50 Happy Hour Food

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
8 NOV
6:00 PM

$6.50 Well Cocktails

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50

Monday, Nov 9

2 events
9 NOV
9:00 AM

Gayme Night

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
9 NOV

Pride Point Network - LGBTQ+ Professionals November Mixer

The Rabbit Hole

Wednesday, Nov 11

3 events
11 NOV
10:00 AM

Draw & Sip

R Place Bar & Eatery
11 NOV
All day

Arrowhead

Diversionary Theatre
Comedy Community
11 NOV

Healing & Releasing Internalized Homophobia

Thursday, Nov 12

8 events
12 NOV
9:00 AM

In Good Company

12 NOV
9:30 AM

SEWcial Hour with Sew Loka

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
12 NOV
12:00 PM

The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Party
Free entry
12 NOV
1:00 PM

Top Shelf Tease

gossipgrill.com
12 NOV
7:00 PM

Arrowhead

Party Comedy
12 NOV
Online

Do Something: Identity(ies) International Virtual Conference

S
12 NOV

San Diego Soiree

12 NOV

Lesbian Cafe – Discussion Group (In Person)

Friday, Nov 13 Friday night

9 events
13 NOV
4:00 AM

Susan G Komen 3 Day for the Cure

13 NOV
8:00 AM

Martini Happy Hour

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$7
13 NOV
11:00 AM

Kings Club Drag King Show

gossipgrill.com
Drag
13 NOV
1:00 PM

RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
13 NOV
1:00 PM

FERAL: Ft. Griffin Maxwell Brooks

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
13 NOV
All day

Resist

13 NOV

The Queerlyweds Game Series

13 NOV

The Locker Room

13 NOV

Encore’s 15th Anniversary Game Show

Saturday, Nov 14 Saturday

4 events
14 NOV
3:00 AM

Smarty Pants Saturday Trivia Brunch

gossipgrill.com
14 NOV
6:00 AM

DUELING DIVA DJs

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
14 NOV
10:00 AM

IMHO Live: Part 2

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Drag Comedy
$30
14 NOV
1:00 PM

BAD ASS BIQTCHEZ- A Stream for a Cause Fundraiser!

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Sunday, Nov 15

3 events
15 NOV
3:00 AM

Pokémon Drag Brunch

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Drag
$20
15 NOV
6:00 PM

$6.50 Happy Hour

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
15 NOV

Hillcrest Honors 2026

Community

Wednesday, Nov 18

2 events
18 NOV
10:30 AM

Sapphic Speed Dating (Ages 25-44)

Négociant Winery
18 NOV

Yellow Hanky Night

Thursday, Nov 19

4 events
19 NOV
10:00 AM

VERY DELTA: Podcast Experience Live!

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
19 NOV
12:00 PM

The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Party
Free entry
19 NOV
All day

Unzip

19 NOV

Red Hanky Night

Friday, Nov 20 Friday night

2 events
20 NOV
12:00 PM

STAR LUST with DJ Shimmer ✨

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Club Night
20 NOV
2:00 PM

UNZIP SAN DIEGO - The Fanny Pack Popup Party

The Brass Rail
Party

Saturday, Nov 21 Saturday

3 events
21 NOV
6:30 AM

Wine Club

gossipgrill.com
Party
21 NOV
12:30 PM

NTA (No Towels Allowed)-Liberation Party

21 NOV

Festival of Trees 2026

Festival

Sunday, Nov 22

1 event
22 NOV
3:00 AM

Thanks for PRIDE: Brunch Benefit

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Tuesday, Nov 24

1 event
24 NOV
4:00 AM

Temptation Tuesday

Wednesday, Nov 25

1 event
25 NOV
10:00 AM

Dreamgirls Revue: Disney

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Friday, Nov 27 Friday night

2 events
27 NOV
8:00 AM

Martini Happy Hour

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$7
27 NOV
9:00 AM

SKYY Bottle Service Special

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Saturday, Nov 28 Saturday

3 events
28 NOV
6:00 AM

Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Club Night
28 NOV
6:00 AM

$10 Pitchers

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
28 NOV
2:00 PM

Glow Party: Return

Sunday, Nov 29

2 events
29 NOV
10:00 AM

Karaoke Sunday

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Party
Free entry
29 NOV
6:00 PM

$6.50 Happy Hour

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50

Tuesday, Dec 1

1 event
1 DEC
10:00 AM

Latrice Royale: The Queen of Soul

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Thursday, Dec 3

2 events
3 DEC
10:00 AM

The Golden Girls: Trivia

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
3 DEC
8:30 PM

Drag the River - 21+

Casbah-San Diego
Drag

Friday, Dec 4 Friday night

2 events
4 DEC
11:00 AM

Meet Me At The Back vol. 7

The San Diego LGBT Community Center
4 DEC
11:00 AM

The Kelly Mantle Show: LIVE

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Saturday, Dec 5 Saturday

2 events
5 DEC
1:00 PM

SCRUM DUMP - The official after party for RUCKTACULAR 2026

The Brass Rail
5 DEC

Red Ribbon Gala

Sunday, Dec 6

3 events
6 DEC
3:00 AM

Dreamgirls: Holiday Brunch

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
6 DEC
6:00 AM

Sassy Sunday Funday

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Party Club Night
6 DEC
11:00 AM

Supper Club

gossipgrill.com
Drag Live Show

Tuesday, Dec 8

1 event
8 DEC
10:00 AM

Spaghetti & ShowTunes: Dinner Theater Divas

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Wednesday, Dec 9

2 events
9 DEC
10:00 AM

Dreamgirls Revue: TFSS Fundraiser

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
9 DEC
10:30 AM

Gay Speed Dating (Ages 35-55)

Négociant Winery

Thursday, Dec 10

1 event
10 DEC
10:00 AM

Christmas Carols: Trivia

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Friday, Dec 11 Friday night

2 events
11 DEC
10:00 AM

Christmas Queens

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
D
11 DEC
10:30 AM

December Healing Through Artplay Workshop!

ArtReach San Diego

Saturday, Dec 12 Saturday

1 event
12 DEC
11:00 AM

Milk & Cookies Burlesque

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Sunday, Dec 13

1 event
13 DEC
3:00 AM

Cabaret Drag Brunch

gossipgrill.com
Drag Cabaret

Thursday, Dec 17

1 event
17 DEC
10:00 AM

Christmas Movies: Trivia

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Friday, Dec 18 Friday night

1 event
18 DEC
10:00 AM

Tammie Brown’s Holiday Sparkle

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Saturday, Dec 19 Saturday

1 event
19 DEC
10:00 AM

Mariam T’s 7th Annual Ugly Sweater Party

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Sunday, Dec 20

1 event
20 DEC
3:00 AM

Disney Gay Brunch

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Thursday, Dec 24

1 event
24 DEC
4:00 AM

CHRISTMAS WITH THE C*NTS

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Friday, Dec 25 Friday night

1 event
25 DEC
2:00 PM

STEAM San Diego: The Nightmare After Christmas

The Brass Rail

Wednesday, Dec 30

1 event
30 DEC

New Years Eve 2027 with Varla Jean Merman

Diversionary Theatre
February 2027 · 2 events open ▸
Thu 4 Bianca Del Rio: It Gets Bitter - World Comedy Tour › Wed 17 Mother Play ›
March 2027 · 6 events open ▸
Fri 5 RuPaul's Drag Race Werq the World Tour › Sat 6 Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion › Sat 13 DUELING DIVA DJs › Thu 25 The California Classic Multi-Sport LGBTQ+ Tournament › Fri 26 Crystal Methyd "The Enchanted Forest" - 18+ › Sun 28 Hans Williams ›
May 2027 · 2 events open ▸
Thu 6 Alaska Thunderf*ck: The Revolution Tour › Wed 19 Take Me Out ›
July 2027 · 1 event open ▸
Thu 22 San Diego Invitational Tournament (SDIT) ›

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