LGBTQ+ Events in San Diego
Upcoming gay events, parties and nights out
207 upcoming events
Nov 2026 – Jul 2027
This weekend
Monday, Nov 2 Today
19 events
8:00
Meat-Up Mondays at the San Diego Eagle
San Diego Eagle
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9:00
Gayme Night
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
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10:00
B
Burly Bear Yoga at AWOL Back Patio
AWOL,1475 University Ave #1469, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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10:00
N
Noodles & Doodles Mondays at Gossip Grill
Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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10:00
Vote At The Center for the 2026 Midterm Election
The San Diego LGBT Community Center
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10:00
Center Library is open Monday-Friday, 10AM-4PM
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
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10:00
Cyber Center
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
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10:00
HIV & STI Screenings
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
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10:00
Medicare Monday
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
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10:00
Trivia with Friends
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
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10:00
Crisis Services Drop-In at SBYC
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
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10:00
Congregate Meals – For Those 60 Years or Older
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
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10:00
SBYC Monday – Community Day (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
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10:00
Grief and Loss – Discussion Group (Virtual)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
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11:00
Corn Hole - Monday Nights at Pecs
Pecs Bar
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11:00
Musical Mondays at Number One Fifth Ave
Number One Fifth Avenue
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11:00
Industry Night Specials at Number One Fifth Avenue
↳ Number One Fifth Avenue
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13:00
B
Blue Mondays at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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Queer Community Connections
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Meat-Up Mondays at the San Diego Eagle
San Diego Eagle
›
9:00
Gayme Night
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
10:00
B
Burly Bear Yoga at AWOL Back Patio
AWOL,1475 University Ave #1469, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
10:00
N
Noodles & Doodles Mondays at Gossip Grill
Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
10:00
Vote At The Center for the 2026 Midterm Election
The San Diego LGBT Community Center
›
10:00
Center Library is open Monday-Friday, 10AM-4PM
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
›
10:00
Cyber Center
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
›
10:00
HIV & STI Screenings
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
›
10:00
Medicare Monday
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
›
10:00
Trivia with Friends
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
›
10:00
Crisis Services Drop-In at SBYC
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
›
10:00
Congregate Meals – For Those 60 Years or Older
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
›
10:00
SBYC Monday – Community Day (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
›
10:00
Grief and Loss – Discussion Group (Virtual)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Community Center
›
11:00
Corn Hole - Monday Nights at Pecs
Pecs Bar
›
11:00
Musical Mondays at Number One Fifth Ave
Number One Fifth Avenue
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11:00
Industry Night Specials at Number One Fifth Avenue
↳ Number One Fifth Avenue
›
13:00
B
Blue Mondays at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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Queer Community Connections
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Tuesday, Nov 3 Tomorrow
13 events
3:00
Margarita and Mezcalita Specials at The Loft
The Loft
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6:00
Happy Hour
Gossip Grill
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6:00
Papi Hour at Baja Betty's
Baja Betty's
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6:00
Tequila Tuesdays at SRO
SRO Lounge
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9:00
$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
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9:00
Taco Tuesday at Baja Betty’s
Baja Betty's
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10:00
Bitch Session at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
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10:00
H
Heather Hardcore & Guests
The Rail,3796 Fifth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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11:00
Karaoke Tuesdays With Joey Adams
gossipgrill.com
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11:30
Tiger's Pictionary and Late Night Karaoke at Number One Fifth Avenue
Number One Fifth Avenue
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12:00
S
Sanctuary DNB Tuesdays at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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19:00
Queer Recovery Dharma
Gather Coffee and Kava
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Don L. Live!
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Margarita and Mezcalita Specials at The Loft
The Loft
›
6:00
Happy Hour
Gossip Grill
›
6:00
Papi Hour at Baja Betty's
Baja Betty's
›
6:00
Tequila Tuesdays at SRO
SRO Lounge
›
9:00
$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
9:00
Taco Tuesday at Baja Betty’s
Baja Betty's
›
10:00
Bitch Session at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
10:00
H
Heather Hardcore & Guests
The Rail,3796 Fifth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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11:00
Karaoke Tuesdays With Joey Adams
gossipgrill.com
›
11:30
Tiger's Pictionary and Late Night Karaoke at Number One Fifth Avenue
Number One Fifth Avenue
›
12:00
S
Sanctuary DNB Tuesdays at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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19:00
Queer Recovery Dharma
Gather Coffee and Kava
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–
Don L. Live!
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Wednesday, Nov 4
22 events
3:00
Seltzer Special Wednesdays at The Loft
The Loft
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6:00
Gonewild Wednesdays - Happy Hour at SRO Lounge
SRO Lounge
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8:00
Fetish Wear Night at The San Diego Eagle
San Diego Eagle
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9:00
Free HIV Testing at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
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10:00
Bingo Gone Bonkers
gossipgrill.com
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10:00
Dreamgirls Revue
Urban MO’s
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10:00
B
Big Gay Trivia at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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10:00
BOYTOY Wednesdays at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
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11:00
Where to Be Wednesdays at Pecs
Pecs Bar
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12:00
Dive Bar Wednesdays and Trivia at Number One Fifth Avenue
Number One Fifth Avenue
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12:00
Detour Wednesdays at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
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12:00
Whiplash Wednesdays at The Brass Rail
↳ The Brass Rail
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13:00
TGIW!
gossipgrill.com
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13:00
D
DRESS CODE Wednesdays at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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13:00
W
Welfare Wednesdays at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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14:00
Mischief
Rich's San Diego
Free entry
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14:00
M
Mischief Wednesdays at Rich's
Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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Red Dress Party San Diego
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Trivia Night
The Clark Cabaret
Free entry
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Popcorn + Pride: LGBTQ+ in Film Twisted Trivia
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–
Men’s Coming Out – Discussion Group (Virtual)
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Buy One Get One Lockers at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
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Seltzer Special Wednesdays at The Loft
The Loft
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6:00
Gonewild Wednesdays - Happy Hour at SRO Lounge
SRO Lounge
›
8:00
Fetish Wear Night at The San Diego Eagle
San Diego Eagle
›
9:00
Free HIV Testing at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
›
10:00
Bingo Gone Bonkers
gossipgrill.com
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10:00
Dreamgirls Revue
Urban MO’s
›
10:00
B
Big Gay Trivia at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
10:00
BOYTOY Wednesdays at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
›
11:00
Where to Be Wednesdays at Pecs
Pecs Bar
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12:00
Dive Bar Wednesdays and Trivia at Number One Fifth Avenue
Number One Fifth Avenue
›
12:00
Detour Wednesdays at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
12:00
Whiplash Wednesdays at The Brass Rail
↳ The Brass Rail
›
13:00
TGIW!
gossipgrill.com
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13:00
D
DRESS CODE Wednesdays at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
13:00
W
Welfare Wednesdays at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
14:00
Mischief
Rich's San Diego
Free entry
›
14:00
M
Mischief Wednesdays at Rich's
Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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–
Red Dress Party San Diego
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Trivia Night
The Clark Cabaret
Free entry
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–
Men’s Coming Out – Discussion Group (Virtual)
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–
Buy One Get One Lockers at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
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Thursday, Nov 5
26 events
3:00
Wine & Champagne Specials Thursday at The Loft
The Loft
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6:00
Happy Hour
The Gossip Grill
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6:00
Martini Thursdays at SRO Lounge!
SRO Lounge
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9:00
Latinos Unidos – Spanish Support Group (In-Person)
Latin@x Services at The Center
Free entry
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9:00
W
Wine About It - $8 Glasses of Wine at Uptown Tavern
Uptown Tavern,1236 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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9:30
Phonebank with The Center – 2026 November Midterm Elections
$50
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10:00
$4 Thirsty Thursdays
gossipgrill.com
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10:00
Trans Femme Support Group
Free entry
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10:00
Karaoke Thursdays at the Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
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10:30
On The Spot Dating Show: Sapphic Singles Event
The Gossip Grill
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10:30
B
Big Bear Bingo at AWOL
AWOL,1475 University Ave #1469, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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10:30
J
Jazz Night in the Cellar at Negociant Winery
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11:00
B
BITCHY BINGO Wednesdays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
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11:00
L
Leather Unbarred at Kava Collective
Kava Collective,1731 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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11:00
T
The Divas! Thursdays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
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11:30
C
CatHaus Burlesque & Pole Dance Revue at Rich's
Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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12:00
The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Free entry
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12:00
BearUnion
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12:00
Pleasure Palace
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12:00
S
Stand Up Comedy Showcase at Rocko's Modern Taphouse
Rocko's Modern Taphouse,3940 Fourth Ave Ste 200, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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12:00
R
Rod Steel’s Freaky Feud at The Rail
The Rail,3796 Fifth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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13:00
Seance Drag Showcase at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
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13:00
Bald Eagle Night at the SD Eagle
San Diego Eagle
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13:00
P
POP ROCKS at Rich's
Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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13:00
R
REVERB Thursdays at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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13:00
T
The Techno Jungle at
↳ EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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Wine & Champagne Specials Thursday at The Loft
The Loft
›
6:00
Happy Hour
The Gossip Grill
›
6:00
Martini Thursdays at SRO Lounge!
SRO Lounge
›
9:00
Latinos Unidos – Spanish Support Group (In-Person)
Latin@x Services at The Center
Free entry
›
9:00
W
Wine About It - $8 Glasses of Wine at Uptown Tavern
Uptown Tavern,1236 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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9:30
Phonebank with The Center – 2026 November Midterm Elections
$50
›
10:00
$4 Thirsty Thursdays
gossipgrill.com
›
10:00
Trans Femme Support Group
Free entry
›
10:00
Karaoke Thursdays at the Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
10:30
On The Spot Dating Show: Sapphic Singles Event
The Gossip Grill
›
10:30
B
Big Bear Bingo at AWOL
AWOL,1475 University Ave #1469, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
10:30
J
Jazz Night in the Cellar at Negociant Winery
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11:00
B
BITCHY BINGO Wednesdays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
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11:00
L
Leather Unbarred at Kava Collective
Kava Collective,1731 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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11:00
T
The Divas! Thursdays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
›
11:30
C
CatHaus Burlesque & Pole Dance Revue at Rich's
Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
12:00
The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Free entry
›
12:00
BearUnion
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12:00
Pleasure Palace
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12:00
S
Stand Up Comedy Showcase at Rocko's Modern Taphouse
Rocko's Modern Taphouse,3940 Fourth Ave Ste 200, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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12:00
R
Rod Steel’s Freaky Feud at The Rail
The Rail,3796 Fifth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
13:00
Seance Drag Showcase at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
13:00
Bald Eagle Night at the SD Eagle
San Diego Eagle
›
13:00
P
POP ROCKS at Rich's
Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
13:00
R
REVERB Thursdays at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
13:00
T
The Techno Jungle at
↳ EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
Friday, Nov 6 Friday night
17 events
3:00
Beer Draft Special Fridays at The Loft
The Loft
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4:00
Circle Jerk - $15 Lockers at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
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4:00
P
PS PRIDE Welcome Pool Party at the Ace Hotel (PALM SPRINGS)
Ace Hotel & Swim Club Palm Springs,701 E Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92264, USA
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6:00
O
Official Friday Pride Pool Party at the Palm Springs Surf Club (PALM SPRINGS)
Palm Springs Surf Club,1500 S Gene Autry Trail, Palm Springs, CA 92264, USA
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8:00
Martini Happy Hour
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$7
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9:00
SKYY Bottle Service Special
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
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9:00
T
Thursday Night Football at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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9:00
RMBL Gear's Sail Away Party at Pecs
Pecs Bar
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9:00
H
House Head & Flashback Friday at Urban MO's
Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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10:00
T
The San Diego Golden Girls at The Brass Rail
The Rail,3796 Fifth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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10:00
S
Sunset Social & Dance Club: Lesbians 40+
Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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11:00
Haut Box Drag Show
gossipgrill.com
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11:00
G
Glitz and Glam Fridays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
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12:00
Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego - The Ultimate Drag Experience
The Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego
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13:00
Finger Me Friday
gossipgrill.com
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Pasión y Corazón: Our First Latinx Pageant
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Ecos del Mictlán
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Beer Draft Special Fridays at The Loft
The Loft
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4:00
Circle Jerk - $15 Lockers at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
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4:00
P
PS PRIDE Welcome Pool Party at the Ace Hotel (PALM SPRINGS)
Ace Hotel & Swim Club Palm Springs,701 E Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92264, USA
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6:00
O
Official Friday Pride Pool Party at the Palm Springs Surf Club (PALM SPRINGS)
Palm Springs Surf Club,1500 S Gene Autry Trail, Palm Springs, CA 92264, USA
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8:00
Martini Happy Hour
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$7
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9:00
SKYY Bottle Service Special
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
9:00
T
Thursday Night Football at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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9:00
RMBL Gear's Sail Away Party at Pecs
Pecs Bar
›
9:00
H
House Head & Flashback Friday at Urban MO's
Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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10:00
T
The San Diego Golden Girls at The Brass Rail
The Rail,3796 Fifth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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10:00
S
Sunset Social & Dance Club: Lesbians 40+
Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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11:00
Haut Box Drag Show
gossipgrill.com
›
11:00
G
Glitz and Glam Fridays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
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12:00
Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego - The Ultimate Drag Experience
The Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego
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13:00
Finger Me Friday
gossipgrill.com
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Pasión y Corazón: Our First Latinx Pageant
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Ecos del Mictlán
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Saturday, Nov 7 Saturday
16 events
1:00
S
Stitch N’ Bitch (Queer Craft Meet-Up)
Lestat's
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3:00
Smarty Pants Saturday Trivia Brunch
gossipgrill.com
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3:00
Bubbles for Brunch
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
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6:00
Lesbians of San Diego Staged Play Reading "Coming Out Stories"
First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego
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6:00
Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
6:00
$10 Pitchers
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
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6:30
Wine Club: Uncorked & Unhinged
The Gossip Grill
›
11:00
Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
12:00
CumUnion
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13:00
Sapphic Saturdays
gossipgrill.com
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13:00
Bear Night NOV 7
EQ San Diego
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13:00
Red Hanky Play Party
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18:00
Robby Hoffman: Live On Tour
The Observatory North Park
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18:00
Babette’s Bingo
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
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20:00
FFOSD Monthly Play Party
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King of Drag – Watch Party
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Smarty Pants Saturday Trivia Brunch
gossipgrill.com
›
3:00
Bubbles for Brunch
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
6:00
Lesbians of San Diego Staged Play Reading "Coming Out Stories"
First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego
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6:00
Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
6:00
$10 Pitchers
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
›
6:30
Wine Club: Uncorked & Unhinged
The Gossip Grill
›
11:00
Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
12:00
CumUnion
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13:00
Sapphic Saturdays
gossipgrill.com
›
13:00
Bear Night NOV 7
EQ San Diego
›
13:00
Red Hanky Play Party
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18:00
Robby Hoffman: Live On Tour
The Observatory North Park
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18:00
Babette’s Bingo
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
20:00
FFOSD Monthly Play Party
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King of Drag – Watch Party
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Sunday, Nov 8
10 events
8
NOV
3:00 AM
Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays
gossipgrill.com
Club Night
8
NOV
3:00 AM
Plezier Service
$25
8
NOV
3:00 AM
KPOP DRAG BRUNCH
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
8
NOV
6:00 AM
Sassy Sunday Funday
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Party
Club Night
8
NOV
7:00 AM
69 BPM R&B Takeover: DJ Jocelin
gossipgrill.com
Club Night
8
NOV
10:00 AM
Karaoke Sunday
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Party
Free entry
F
8
NOV
11:00 AM
FRIENDSGIVING
Big Gay Picnic @ Balboa Park
8
NOV
1:00 PM
San Diego Gay Speed Dating for Soulmates
4067 47th St
8
NOV
6:00 PM
$6.50 Happy Hour Food
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
8
NOV
6:00 PM
$6.50 Well Cocktails
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
Monday, Nov 9
1 event
Wednesday, Nov 11
3 events
Thursday, Nov 12
8 events
12
NOV
9:00 AM
In Good Company
12
NOV
9:30 AM
SEWcial Hour with Sew Loka
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
12
NOV
12:00 PM
The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Party
Free entry
12
NOV
1:00 PM
Top Shelf Tease
gossipgrill.com
12
NOV
7:00 PM
Arrowhead
Party
Comedy
12
NOV
Online
Do Something: Identity(ies) International Virtual Conference
S
12
NOV
San Diego Soiree
12
NOV
Lesbian Cafe – Discussion Group (In Person)
Friday, Nov 13 Friday night
8 events
13
NOV
4:00 AM
Susan G Komen 3 Day for the Cure
13
NOV
11:00 AM
Kings Club Drag King Show
gossipgrill.com
Drag
13
NOV
1:00 PM
RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
13
NOV
1:00 PM
FERAL: Ft. Griffin Maxwell Brooks
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
13
NOV
All day
Resist
13
NOV
The Queerlyweds Game Series
13
NOV
The Locker Room
13
NOV
