Dirty Little Secret

DIRTY LITTLE SECRET

Every Friday at 9 PM

DIRTY LITTLE SECRET
Rockbar NYC·185 Christopher Street, New York, NY 10014 · Directions·+1 212-675-1864·Website

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Spill the tea… and then some. DIRTY LITTLE SECRET is your new Friday night obsession at Rockbar NYC. Hosted by the one and only Lita Desire Valenciaga—freshly crowned Mx. Rockbar 2026—this weekly show brings bold performances, juicy surprises, and just the right amount of scandal. Every Friday at 8PM, expect fierce drag, unfiltered fun, and a few secrets that probably shouldn’t be shared… but will be anyway. Come early, stay messy.

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Arcade Game Day

Arcade Game Day
Saturday, November 14th, 2026
4:00 PM

Rockbar's Arcade Game Day kicks off right after Disney Trivia wraps up at 4:00 PM on Saturday, November 14th, 2026. Grab your squad and settle in for a day of retro game fun at this West Village gay rock bar on Christopher Street.

Bears Night Out

Bears Night Out
Saturday, November 14th, 2026
9:00 PM

The second Saturday belongs to the bears, cubs, and everyone who loves them. DJ Steve Cunningham keeps the energy high while go-go dancers work the room. Doors open at 9pm, $10 cover — it's the kind of night that fills up fast with the right crowd.

Noodz

Noodz
Saturday, November 14th, 2026
10:00 PM

Every second Saturday at 10pm, Noodz brings the heat with dark room drag shows, heavy beats, and an XXX photo exhibition that pushes boundaries. It's $10 to get in, $200 if you want to submit your best anonymous photo to the display, and $1 for a clothing check (though stripping down is entirely optional). This is the kind of night that rewards the uninhibited and welcomes everyone else to watch and vibe.

Oral Exam Trivia

Oral Exam Trivia
Monday, November 16th, 2026
7:00 PM

Monday nights at Rockbar belong to the smart mouths and the loud, chaotic energy that keeps people coming back. Hosted by Jason Romas, Oral Exam Trivia is exactly what it sounds like — yell answers, flirt with the competition, fight for a $50 bar tab, and expect the kind of gloriously bad behavior that makes trivia actually fun. Drink, play, win.

Howl Your Heart Out

Howl Your Heart Out
Tuesday, November 17th, 2026
7:00 PM

Gotham Kennel Club brings karaoke to Rockbar every Tuesday night — hosted by Kenzo, it's the kind of crowd that actually wants to hear you sing. $10 suggested donation gets you in the door and keeps the energy going all night.

Thee Black Hotties

Thee Black Hotties
Thursday, November 19th, 2026
8:00 PM

Thee Black Hotties are back with the crew that keeps the energy high — hosted by Harriet Tugsmen and Ms. Ratchet NYC, with Gay4Pay on the decks. Whether you're a regular or showing up for the first time, this is the night the hotties take over. Come ready to dance and connect with a crowd that actually knows how to have fun.

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Queens Queer Youth Group (13-18)

Queens Queer Youth Group (13-18)
Friday, November 13th, 2026
4:00 PM

A weekly drop-in space for LGBTQ+ youth ages 13-18 at the LGBT Network Queens LGBT Center in Astoria. Every Friday afternoon, teens find their people through video games, board games, art supplies, themed activities, and real talk. Whether it's a seasonal celebration, Pride parade sign-making, or a relaxed hangout, this is a safe, affirming community where you can be yourself with no pressure and no agenda. Drop in anytime between 4pm and 6pm.

The BoyGirl Experience Live

The BoyGirl Experience Live
Friday, November 13th, 2026
5:00 PM

A night celebrating gender expression and queer identity with live performance and dance at Brooklyn's premier queer nightclub. The BoyGirl Experience brings together a diverse crowd ready to express themselves authentically on one of the city's best dance floors.

Third Eye Yoga

Third Eye Yoga
Friday, November 13th, 2026
5:00 PM

An hour of clothing-optional Vinyasa Flow with instructor John at Red Eye NY's intimate studio space. A judgment-free, welcoming queer community setting to move, breathe, and connect with your body — the perfect grounding practice to reset before the week (or weekend) takes over. $20 per class, or grab a 5-class pass for $75 or 10-class pass for $125, cash at the door.

Queer Diwali Ball 2026

Queer Diwali Ball 2026
Friday, November 13th, 2026
6:00 PM

The Festival of Lights gets a queer celebration at this annual gala bringing together drag artists, a vibrant South Asian vendor market, and a joyous crowd of 200 guests. More than just a party—it's a benefit supporting Desi Rainbow's work empowering LGBTQ+ South Asians and their families.

Long Island Youth Friday Night Out: Jackbox Game Night (Ages 13 18 In Person)

Long Island Youth Friday Night Out: Jackbox Game Night (Ages 13 18 In Person)
Friday, November 13th, 2026
6:00 PM

Friday Night Out is a welcoming in-person night for LGBTQ+ youth and their friends, ages 13 to 18, at the LGBT Network Queens LGBT Center in New York City. Grab a seat, team up, and get ready for Jackbox Game Night, full of ridiculous answers, hilarious prompts, unexpected challenges, and friendly competition. It runs Friday, November 13, 2026 from 6:00 to 9:00 PM, and you can just show up to chill, connect, and be yourself.

Swp Pop Up Mixer

Swp Pop Up Mixer
Friday, November 13th, 2026
6:00 PM

SWP Pop-Up Mixer is a cozy evening of community, drinks and raffle prizes at Boyfriend Co-op Café + Bar in Brooklyn, hosted by the Sex Workers Project. Stop by to meet friends old and new, learn about SWP's work, and help fund free immigration legal services and community resources. Food and drinks are available for purchase, and you'll want to stick around for the raffle full of items donated by local businesses.

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