LGBTQ+ Events in San Diego

Upcoming gay events, parties and nights out

200 upcoming events Oct 2026 – May 2027

When All Today Tomorrow This week This month

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What All Club Night 40 Drag 33 Party 20 Cabaret 11 Live Show 10 Women / Sapphic 8

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Community 6 Film Screening 6 Free Entry 6 Comedy 5 Festival 1 Fetish 1

This weekend

Fri Rotten Rentals: A Drag Show and Screening

Fri Nightmare on Normal Street

Fri Vote At The Center for the 2026 Midterm Election

Fri HIV & STI Screenings – Saturdays

Friday, Oct 30 Today

5 events

30 OCT

11:30 PM

Saturday, Oct 31 Tomorrow

39 events

3:00 P Poolside Leather Pride Yoga at Hotel Zoso (PALM SPRINGS LEATHER PRIDE) Hotel Zoso,150 S Indian Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92262, USA › 3:30 D Dragalicious Brunch Saturdays at Lips Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA › 4:00

Bubbles for Brunch: Halloween Special Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $25 › 4:00

Beer Bucket Special Saturdays at The Loft The Loft › 4:00 S Smarty Pants Trivia Brunch at Gossip Grill Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 5:00

Karaoke Saturdays at The Brass Rail The Brass Rail › 7:00

Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 7:00

$10 Pitchers ↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50 › 7:00

Happy Hour The Gossip Grill › 7:00 $ $10 Pitchers Every Saturday and Sunday at Urban MO's Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 7:00 H Hallo-wine Neighborhood Wine Crawl at Negociant › 7:00 T The Official Cigar Social at the Eagle Cathedral City (PALM SPRINGS LEATHER PRIDE) The Eagle,67625 E Palm Canyon Dr, Cathedral City, CA 92234, USA › 7:00 U Unleashed Pup Party at Chill Bar (PALM SPRINGS LEATHER PRIDE) Chill Bar,217 E Arenas Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262, USA › 7:30

Wine Club: Uncorked & Unhinged Gossip Grill › 9:00

Disco T-Dance at The Brass Rail The Brass Rail › 10:45 G Glitz and Glam Saturdays at Lips Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA › 11:00 H Halloween Party & Costume Competition at Rocko's Modern Taphouse Rocko's Modern Taphouse,3940 Fourth Ave Ste 200, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 11:30

Screening x DJ Set: All Those Who Bear Witness 6165 Crawford St › 12:00 H Hidden Halloween: A Spooky Speakeasy Drag Show & Dance Party Charade Speakeasy,1867 Fifth Avenue, San Diego, CA 92101, USA › 12:30

Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego - The Ultimate Drag Experience The Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego › 13:00

Costume Contest Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry › 13:00

Noir Room Halloween Edition › 13:00

CumUnion › 13:00 H Halloween MASSIVE at Rich's Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 14:00

Sapphic Saturdays gossipgrill.com › 14:00

La Bomba at Number One Fifth Ave Number One Fifth Avenue › 14:00 S Saturdays at Flicks Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 14:00

Ghosted Halloween Party at Pecs Pecs Bar › 14:00 N Night Groomers Halloween Night at EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 14:00

Sabados En Fuego - Latin Music All Night at The Brass Rail The Brass Rail › 14:00 G Go Deep: The Official Dungeon Play Party at Hotel Zoso (PALM SPRINGS LEATHER PRIDE) Hotel Zoso,150 S Indian Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92262, USA › 14:00

Coven: A Haunted Mansion House Party at Number One Fifth Avenue Number One Fifth Avenue › 14:00 T The Bayou After Dark - Massive Lot Party at Flicks Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 15:00

Possessed by the Beat ft. Jinx Mirage Urban MO’s › 18:00

Queer Tango Class + Practica Yoga One › 21:00

FFOSD Monthly Play Party › –

Live Music with Ria & Rayme › –

King of Drag – Watch Party › –

Sober Queerious Drag Brunch - Día de los Muertos ›

Sunday, Nov 1

22 events

1:00 K Kawffee and Kink with Fetish Men San Diego at Le Stat's Hillcrest Lestat's Hillcrest,1045 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92116, USA › 1:00 H Hillcrest Farmers Market - EVERY SUNDAY 9am-2pm 1601 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 1:30 S Sunday Ticket at Flicks Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 2:30 D Dragalicious Gospel Brunch Sundays at Lips Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA › 3:00

Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays gossipgrill.com › 3:00

Plezier Service $25 › 3:00

Sunday Funday: Mimosas & Bloody Marys at The Loft The Loft › 5:00 T The Official Victory Party and Beer Bust at The Eagle Cathedral City (PALM SPRINGS LEATHER PRIDE) The Eagle,67625 E Palm Canyon Dr, Cathedral City, CA 92234, USA › 6:00

Papi Hour at Baja Betty's Baja Betty's › 6:00 S Sassy Sunday at Urban MO's Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 6:00

Sunday Fundays - Happy Hour at SRO Lounge SRO Lounge › 8:00

Double The Fun at Club San Diego Club San Diego › 8:00

Set It Off Number One Fifth Avenue › 9:00

VIDA: Dia De Los Muertos: Drag Benefit Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20 › 10:00

Karaoke Sunday ↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry › 11:00

Supper Club gossipgrill.com › 11:00 S Showstopper Sundays at Lips Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA › 11:00 S Supper Club: Addams Family Values at Gossip Grill Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 13:00 S STUNT Sundays at Rich's Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 13:00 S Strapped In at the Eagle Cathedral City (PALM SPRINGS LEATHER PRIDE) The Eagle Cathedral City,67625 E Palm Canyon Dr, Cathedral City, CA 92234, USA › 18:00

$6.50 Happy Hour Food Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50 › 18:00

$6.50 Well Cocktails ↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50 ›

Monday, Nov 2

13 events

3:00

Industry Day Shot Specials at The Loft The Loft › 4:00

Ugh Monday - Industry Night Pecs Bar › 6:00

Courtney’s Clubhouse at The San Diego LGBTQ Center The San Diego LGBT Community Center › 6:00 S Sin & Spaghetti Mondays Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 8:00

Meat-Up Mondays at the San Diego Eagle San Diego Eagle › 9:00

Gayme Night Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 10:00 B Burly Bear Yoga at AWOL Back Patio AWOL,1475 University Ave #1469, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 10:00 N Noodles & Doodles Mondays at Gossip Grill Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 10:30 T Trivia Night Mondays at Flicks Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 11:00

Corn Hole - Monday Nights at Pecs Pecs Bar › 11:00

Musical Mondays at Number One Fifth Ave Number One Fifth Avenue › 13:00 B Blue Mondays at EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › –

Queer Community Connections ›

Tuesday, Nov 3

13 events

3:00

Margarita and Mezcalita Specials at The Loft The Loft › 6:00

Tequila Tuesdays at SRO SRO Lounge › 9:00

$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 9:00

Taco Tuesday at Baja Betty’s Baja Betty's › 10:00

Bitch Session at The Brass Rail The Brass Rail › 10:00 H Heather Hardcore & Guests The Rail,3796 Fifth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 11:00

Karaoke Tuesdays With Joey Adams gossipgrill.com › 11:30

Tiger's Pictionary and Late Night Karaoke at Number One Fifth Avenue Number One Fifth Avenue › 12:00 S Sanctuary DNB Tuesdays at EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 12:15 H HATHA FOUNDATIONS NAKED YOGA at Healing Space Ocean Beach Healing Space,2183 Bacon St, San Diego, CA 92107, USA › 12:30 K Karaoke Tuesday and Happy Hour at Flicks Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 19:00 Q Queer Recovery Dharma Gather Coffee and Kava › –

Don L. Live! ›

Wednesday, Nov 4

8 events

4 NOV

10:00 AM

Bingo Gone Bonkers

Dreamgirls Revue

Urban MO’s

4 NOV

1:00 PM

TGIW!

gossipgrill.com

Club Night Free Entry

4 NOV

2:00 PM

Mischief

Red Dress Party San Diego

Party

4 NOV

Trivia Night

The Clark Cabaret

Free entry

4 NOV

Popcorn + Pride: LGBTQ+ in Film Twisted Trivia

4 NOV

Online

Men’s Coming Out – Discussion Group (Virtual)

Thursday, Nov 5

7 events

5 NOV

9:00 AM

Latinos Unidos – Spanish Support Group (In-Person)

Latin@x Services at The Center

Free entry

5 NOV

9:30 AM

Phonebank with The Center – 2026 November Midterm Elections

$4 Thirsty Thursdays

gossipgrill.com

5 NOV

10:00 AM

Trans Femme Support Group

On The Spot Dating Show: Sapphic Singles Event

The Gossip Grill

5 NOV

12:00 PM

The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

BearUnion

Friday, Nov 6 Friday night

6 events

6 NOV

8:00 AM

Martini Happy Hour

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

6 NOV

9:00 AM

SKYY Bottle Service Special

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

6 NOV

11:00 AM

Haut Box Drag Show

Finger Me Friday

gossipgrill.com

Club Night

6 NOV

Pasión y Corazón: Our First Latinx Pageant

6 NOV

Ecos del Mictlán

Saturday, Nov 7 Saturday

8 events

7 NOV

1:00 AM

Stitch N’ Bitch (Queer Craft Meet-Up)

Smarty Pants Saturday Trivia Brunch

gossipgrill.com

7 NOV

3:00 AM

Bubbles for Brunch

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

7 NOV

6:00 AM

Lesbians of San Diego Staged Play Reading "Coming Out Stories"

First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego

7 NOV

11:00 AM

Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Club Night

7 NOV

1:00 PM

Bear Night NOV 7

EQ San Diego

7 NOV

6:00 PM

Robby Hoffman: Live On Tour

The Observatory North Park

Live Show

7 NOV

6:00 PM

Babette’s Bingo

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Sunday, Nov 8

6 events

8 NOV

3:00 AM

KPOP DRAG BRUNCH

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

8 NOV

3:00 AM

Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays

Gossip Grill

8 NOV

6:00 AM

Sassy Sunday Funday

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Party Club Night

8 NOV

7:00 AM

69 BPM R&B Takeover: DJ Jocelin

FRIENDSGIVING

Big Gay Picnic @ Balboa Park

8 NOV

1:00 PM

San Diego Gay Speed Dating for Soulmates

4067 47th St

Monday, Nov 9

1 event

9 NOV

Pride Point Network - LGBTQ+ Professionals November Mixer

The Rabbit Hole

Tuesday, Nov 10

1 event

10 NOV

6:00 AM

Happy Hour

Gossip Grill

Wednesday, Nov 11

3 events

11 NOV

10:00 AM

Sip & Draw

R Place Bar & Eatery

11 NOV

All day

Arrowhead

Diversionary Theatre

Comedy Community

11 NOV

Healing & Releasing Internalized Homophobia

Thursday, Nov 12

7 events

12 NOV

9:30 AM