femmes4coffee — (perfect lovers)

femmes! femmes! femmes! what does your femmeness mean to you? what does it mean to be in community with other femmes? are you yearning for friendships tethered by a mutual yet unique relationship to queer femininity? let's connect over coffee and conversation! come alone or with beloveds. this gathering centers femme dykes. and: we recognize femmeness as a richly gendered, sexualized, racialized, and politicized identity. transfemmes, hyperfemmes, and other femmes who embrace their femininity radically, lesbian or not, are welcome. we'll be collecting donations for @durhamtransladiespicnic, which go towards picnic costs & mutual aid for transfemmes in our community. this will be a bimonthly event, so if you can't make this first gathering, we'll host more in 2027!