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Jiffy Kink: Speed Date
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November 28, 2026
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November 28, 2026
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7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
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Sanctuary
Presented by Mx Bliss
Come prepared to meet people across the gender and kink spectrum; your open-mindedness, eagerness to expand your friend circle, and curiosity are welcome here! Out of respect for other attendees, please note that we expect you to dress up/make an effort. If you look like you’re headed out to a sports bar or gym, you will be turned away (or charged double). This is part speed dating and part a class on consent-forward flirting and seeking play!
Are you an introvert and mortified at the prospect of introducing yourself or asking people to play? Mx Bliss will be there to hold your hands and “coax/force” you into social interaction (you know you like it when she yells). Are you a slutty extrovert that can’t stop flirting? Please come ‘cause your sluttery is celebrated here!
You’ll have about 3 minutes with a new potential friend to address a kinky question. The “Introvert Whisper” and her sexy assistants will help you connect with your matches so you can find new friends and potential kinky play mates. MxBliss will also be giving all the flirty tips, tricks, and confidence boosters you need to successfully make new friends.
Immediately following Speed Dating, plan to stay for the Jiffy Kink Play Party! You’ll have a leg up for the play party and likely some new friends going into a night of BDSM shenanigans.
Rules: Kindness, consent, and a willingness to meet new friends…oh, while you should bring your dick (bio or strap-on) don’t be one! If you can’t spend 3 minutes talking to a stranger who may not share your kinks, preferred partner gender, or whatever else you are looking for from a play partner, then this event is NOT for you. See more detailed expectations (and join the Fet group) at Jiffy Kink Group HERE
This event is design built for experienced folks interested in expanding their play circle (you dirty, dirty sluts) or for those new to kink trying to figure out how to meet fellow BDSM explorers (tsk, tsk you perverts). If you are new to BDSM or the kink community, please let MxBliss know so she can set you up with a pervert mentor that will give you quick orientation to Rules of Play Parties and Consent and Negotiation basics.
Price is $30/32 and includes admission to the Play Party following Speed Dating!Doors open at 7 and the event runs to 8:45.Dress to impress. If you’re dressed like you’re going to the gym or a sports bar, admission is $60/62
Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth
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Sanctuary Club is a members-only BDSM and play club at 33 NW 9th Avenue, for over-21s. Willamette Week's January 2026 round-up of the city's sex clubs called it queer-focused with a mixed crowd, and OutxOut lists its themed events. It is not a gay-only venue or a bathhouse…
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