The Missing Kink In 4 weeks
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The Missing Kink

Mixed crowd Fetish / Kink
Saturday, 05 December 2026 · 9:00 PM – 2:00 AM Sanctuary Club, Portland, United States
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December 5, 2026 at 9:00 pm - December 6, 2026 at 2:00 am

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December 5, 2026 at 9:00 pm - 2:00 am

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Monthly from October 4, 2025

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Sanctuary

Get the kink you’ve been missing back into your life.

Enjoy Sanctuary’s numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches

Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after.

CC: $12 before 10, $22 after

Dress code: This is a fetish/kink night so dress to impress. No athletic, gym, or beach wear unless you are taking that shit off!

Remember: Sanctuary is based on the principles of kindness, consent, and respect. Failure to follow these principles can result in banishment. In other words: we will kick you out if you have a bad attitude, speak rudely to others or about others.

–Never interrupt scenes. Your questions and comments must wait until afterwards.

–Many people have invested large amounts of money in their sex weapons, so ask before touching.

— Depending on the intensity of the scene, there may be aftercare. Compliments and questions can wait.

— Be a person! No one likes a zombie. Staring is rude. Consider a three-second rule

— Cruisers (people wearing a path on the floor looking room to room) will be asked to leave. Life is a participatory sport. No you aren’t being sneaky. You are being disruptive.)

— See something? Say something! It may not seem like a big deal but we’d rather have it on our radar before it becomes a big deal.

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on ninth.

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Crowd: mixed

About the venue

Sanctuary Club is a members-only BDSM and play club at 33 NW 9th Avenue, for over-21s. Willamette Week's January 2026 round-up of the city's sex clubs called it queer-focused with a mixed crowd, and OutxOut lists its themed events. It is not a gay-only venue or a bathhouse…

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