RUSCHMEYERS, gay-friendly hotel in Montauk
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RUSCHMEYERS

Google (269) 3.7
Tripadvisor (13) 3.8
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Visitors praise the helpfulness of staff like Nile, Carlton, and Brian, and find the rooms and shared spaces well-designed and comfortable, with some enjoying the food and drinks. However, multiple guests reported issues with cleanliness, outdated hotel pictures, and a lack of on-site staff for check-in, leading to a less than ideal experience for some.

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Address
161 2nd House Rd, Montauk, NY 11954, USA
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Phone
(631) 483-5154
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Website
ruschmeyers.com

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About this place RUSCHMEYERS

Ruschmeyer's is a summer-season hotel on Second House Road in Montauk, at the eastern tip of Long Island. It has a restaurant and bar, and its lawn turns into a social scene on summer weekends. It is a mainstream place that is gay-friendly, not a gay venue. Its 3.7 rating across about 270 reviews reflects Hamptons-level prices and crowds at peak times. Book well ahead for July and August, and expect the bar to be loud on weekend evenings. It is only open in the warmer months, so check dates before planning a shoulder-season trip. Fire Island and the Pines are not close by. Montauk itself has no gay scene.

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Gay-friendly (straight venue) Card payments accepted Walk-ins welcome Reservation required WiFi Year-round Beach access Gay-friendly (straight venue)

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3.7
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269 reviews

Based on 269 Google reviews.

Jacob Averill Jun 2026
★☆☆☆☆

Here on a work trip and unfortunately, I have another evening booked here in the future because it was one of the only places affordable in this area. Firstly, the front desk is only open from 1 to 7 each day. I got there around 6:30 with an extremely unhelpful girl at the front desk. She was normal but no help at all. I had to come back out and ask her for Wi-Fi ask if there are any amenities, she just shrugged her shoulders and said she didn't know I saw and noticed there were a few bicycles which I noticed were part of the amenities on the website and a main reason why I chose this place so I'm able to bike around and explore, upon further inspection every one of the four bicycles were broken. Tires were flat handlebars were pointed downwards, cause they weren't tightened enough the brakes didn't work and one of the bikes chains were completely off. I went in after I tried driving down the hill with no brakes and almost crashed. Spoke to the girl again she shrugged her shoulders. I said why don't you come out here so I can show you and she said yeah I don't know what to tell you. I told her these are super unsafe and you can't let anyone drive them. They will literally fall apart. When I tell you, these bicycles were so terrible and completely put together wrong. The restaurant is closed for the season. No one's there. There are no places around the area to get anything. So I walked about a mile into town instead of ordering a $40 Uber. Honestly bummed that I have to stay here another night at the end of the month.

Connor DeVries Jun 2026
★★★☆☆

Interesting customer service. I could not get a hold of anyone from the numbers listed online. The restaurant is also not open and I thought June was the on season? Rooms need to be cleaned much better. Location is great and the venue/property has so much potential. I would love to return due to price and location, but they would really benefit from better housekeeping and customer experience.

jordan elkins Jun 2026
★☆☆☆☆

I was planning to stay with my fiancee and our dog for Memorial Day weekend but it absolutely POURED. Upon arrival, there was no lobby or front desk to help, the restaurant had not even opened yet?? I was confused why would you open the hotel when the restaurant is still closed and there is no indoor common space in the pouring rain. I think I should have been notified about this ahead of time. There was nowhere for our dog to sleep except on a wooden floor so we left before even checking in and asked for at least a partial refund. I've gotten no reply since and am out a decent sum of money for a stay that never happened.

Sebastian B Jan 2026
★★★★★
Gary Wright Aug 2025
★★★★★

Awesome, clean , friendly staff

cesarR Sanchez Aug 2025
★★★★★
Emily Tucker Aug 2025
★☆☆☆☆

could not imagine a worse customer service experience do not eat here. this might be my first google review ever — that’s how passionate i am about this

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Last updated on 15 November 2026

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