Best Gay-Friendly Hotels in Montauk

Surfside Inn

Gay-Friendly Hotel 4.6 (90)

Surfside Inn

Gay-Friendly Hotel

Smoke-free inn on Old Montauk Highway with free breakfast, Wi-Fi and parking; a gay-friendly mainstream stay near the beaches.

Gay friendly Gay-friendly (straight venue) Free breakfast

LGBTQ+ Friendly Oct 2026

Ocean Resort Inn

Gay-Friendly Hotel 4.5 (122)

Ocean Resort Inn

Gay-Friendly Hotel

Guesthouse on South Emerson Ave in central Montauk with rooms, suites, studios and an outdoor pool, a short walk to the beach.

Gay friendly Gay-friendly (straight venue) Card payments accepted

LGBTQ+ Friendly Oct 2026

Aqualina Inn Montauk

Gay-Friendly Hotel 4.7 (123)

Aqualina Inn Montauk

Gay-Friendly Hotel

Casual inn near the beach in Montauk with a heated outdoor pool, picnic tables and bike storage.

Gay friendly Gay-friendly (straight venue) Pool

LGBTQ+ Friendly Oct 2026

Breakers Montauk

Gay-Friendly Hotel 4.2 (144)

Breakers Montauk

Gay-Friendly Hotel

Oceanfront Montauk motel with simple rooms and suites, all with ocean views, plus an outdoor pool.

Gay friendly Gay-friendly (straight venue) Pool

LGBTQ+ Friendly Oct 2026

Kenny's Tipperary Inn

Gay-Friendly Hotel 4.4 (561)

Kenny's Tipperary Inn

Gay-Friendly Hotel

Modest Montauk inn on West Lake Drive with homey rooms, some kitchenettes, a seasonal pool and a garden.

Gay friendly Gay-friendly (straight venue) Pool

LGBTQ+ Friendly Oct 2026

Royal Atlantic Beach Resort South

Gay-Friendly Hotel 3.9 (540)

Royal Atlantic Beach Resort South

Gay-Friendly Hotel

Simple Montauk beach motel-resort on S Emerson Ave with rooms and suites, patios, two pools and free breakfast.

Gay friendly Gay-friendly (straight venue) Pool

LGBTQ+ Friendly Oct 2026

Montauk Blue Hotel

Gay-Friendly Hotel 4.3 (399)

Montauk Blue Hotel

Gay-Friendly Hotel

Mid-size hotel at 108 S Emerson Ave in downtown Montauk, walking distance to the ocean beach and the village shops.

Gay friendly Gay-friendly (straight venue) Reservation required

LGBTQ+ Friendly Oct 2026

The Montauk Soundview

Gay-Friendly Hotel 4.2 (140)

The Montauk Soundview

Gay-Friendly Hotel

Small waterfront hotel on Soundview Drive on Montauk's bay side, rated 4.2 by about 140 Google reviewers.

Gay friendly Gay-friendly (straight venue) Card payments accepted

LGBTQ+ Friendly Oct 2026

RUSCHMEYERS

Gay-Friendly Hotel 3.7 (269)

RUSCHMEYERS

Gay-Friendly Hotel

Seasonal summer hotel with a restaurant, bar and lawn on Second House Road in Montauk.

Gay friendly Gay-friendly (straight venue) Card payments accepted

LGBTQ+ Friendly Oct 2026

The Surf Lodge

Gay-Friendly Hotel 3.5 (583)

The Surf Lodge

Gay-Friendly Hotel

Montauk's boutique lodge on Fort Pond, known for its summer restaurant, bar scene and live concert series.

Gay friendly Gay-friendly (straight venue) Beach access

LGBTQ+ Friendly Oct 2026

Gurney's Montauk Resort & Seawater Spa

Gay-Friendly Hotel 4.1 (1691)

Gurney's Montauk Resort & Seawater Spa

Gay-Friendly Hotel

Oceanfront resort on Old Montauk Highway with its own beach and the Seawater Spa; mainstream and gay-friendly, not a gay hotel.

Gay friendly Spa Gay-friendly (straight venue)

LGBTQ+ Friendly Oct 2026