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The Ellwanger Estate

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Visitors consistently praise the Ellwanger Estate's beautifully appointed and unique rooms, comfortable beds, and the exceptional hospitality and delicious breakfasts provided by innkeeper Rosemary. While no common complaints were evident in the provided reviews, some guests noted the historic architecture and furnishings made them feel transported to another time.

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625 Mt Hope Ave, Rochester, NY 14620, USA
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Phone
(585) 314-1793
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Website
www.ellwangerestate.com

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About this place The Ellwanger Estate

The Ellwanger Estate is a guesthouse in a historic property on Mt Hope Avenue in Rochester, New York, close to Highland Park and Mount Hope Cemetery. It is a mainstream place to stay that we list as gay-friendly, not a gay venue. The Ellwanger name is tied to the 19th-century nursery business that shaped this part of Rochester. It holds a 4.9 Google rating from over 120 reviews, which is unusually consistent. The South Wedge, with many of the city's bars and restaurants, is a short drive or a longer walk away. Check rooms and availability on ellwangerestate.com.

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Gay-friendly (straight venue) Card payments accepted Reservation required WiFi Day venue Evening venue Year-round Gay-friendly (straight venue) Air conditioning

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122 reviews

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Lynn Steer
Lynn Steer May 2026
★★★★★

I have stayed at a lot of inns. None have come close to the beautifully appointed Ellwanger estate. Each room is unique and has its own bathroom where everything works! The mattresses are incredibly comfortable. Rosemary is wonderfully accommodating and makes each breakfast from locally sourced ingredients.. highly highly recommend.

Christina Esquer
Christina Esquer Mar 2026
★★★★★

Rosemary was incredibly helpful and attentive during my visit. The architecture and furnishings makes you feel like you’ve been transported to another time period.

Emma Hanson
Emma Hanson Mar 2026
★★★★★

Lovely and very comfortable with many sweet cozy spaces to tuck in and read.

Elaine Schmerling
Elaine Schmerling Nov 2025
★★★★★

We love the Ellwanger Estate! We discovered it on our first visit to Rochester to visit our son in graduate school at U of R and stayed there for all of our visits! We love the beds, the decorations, Rosemary's amazing hospitality and food, and although happy our son just graduated...we will miss our visits here!

Tammy Cruppe
Tammy Cruppe Oct 2025
★★★★★

Stunningly beautiful and charming inside. Felt like stepping back in time. Loved it!

A Z
A Z Aug 2025
★★★★★

Update 6/2025: Another stellar visit at the Ellwanger mansion. Breakfast was hearty and delicious. Rosemary is the perfect innkeeper; attentive and accomodating. We'll be back here. 6/2023: We had a great week at Ellwanger’s Estate. A great oasis near the urban center and close to the park and cemetery for lovely walks. We look forward to going back. Rosemary is a great host, gourmet breakfast was exquisite.

Heidi Schwenk
Heidi Schwenk Jul 2025
★★★★★

My four day stay at The Ellwanger Estate with the fabulous Host, Rosemary Janofsky, Innkeeper/Owner was beyond my expectations. Every detail from the greetings online, at the door upon arrival, and the tour of the house made me feel welcome. The pristine bedding and bed were perfect for a restful night after a busy day! I can't forget to mention the home and room's fine antiques, and art reminded me to think about Rochester's history. The wall murals in the bedroom I stayed in made me feel like I was in Scotland. Each morning the breakfasts were unique and outstanding with fruit plate to start, a tasty prepared main course and baked good or a simpler breakfast could be presented. I also truly loved seeing the wildlife greeting me when I arrived or departed; rabbits, a doe and a buck and a groundhog. The garden was delightful to stroll in the morning before leaving for the day. I will be back!

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Last updated on 14 October 2026

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