LGBTQ+ Events in San Diego

Finger Me Friday

2:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Polyphonic Cabaret

2:00 Stitch N’ Bitch (Queer Craft Meet-Up) Lestat's › 3:39 San Diego Saturday Night Online Speed Dating Ages 35-50 Speed Rounds MV69+3G Coronado Free entry › 4:00 Bubbles for Brunch Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $25 › 4:00 Smarty Pants Saturday Trivia Brunch gossipgrill.com › 7:00 Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 7:00 $10 Pitchers ↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50 › 10:00 Queer Parents and Families Park Social Free entry › 12:00 Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion ↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 12:00 RIQUEZA! BURLESQUE, DRAG & MORE Queen Bee's Art and Cultural Center › 14:00 Bear Night OCT 3 EQ San Diego › 14:00 Sapphic Saturdays gossipgrill.com › 18:00 Queer Tango Class + Practica Yoga One $20 › 20:37 San Diego Gay Professionals Only Speed Dating MRJ6+P8 Coronado Free entry › 21:00 FFOSD Monthly Play Party › 21:00 Hillcrest - EQ is Hopping on the 1st Saturday of the Month! The Merrow Free entry › – Art Date with Derrol diversionary.org ›

Live Show +1

Big Queer Foodie Fest

Festival +1

Saturday, Oct 3

16 events

Sunday, Oct 4

8 events

Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays

4:00 AM gossipgrill.com

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Sassy Sunday Funday

Party +1

Third Annual Gobble Gala: Red Light District

8:00 AM Gossip Grill

Supper Club

Drag +3

Write Out Loud - LGBTQ+ Writers Group October 2026 Meetup #1

1:00 PM Free entry

King of Drag – Watch Party

1:00 PM Free entry

Party +2

$6.50 Happy Hour Food

$6.50 Well Cocktails

Monday, Oct 5

9 events

Center Library is open Monday-Friday, 10AM-4PM

LGBTQ+ library open Monday-Friday for books and recommendations

3:00 AM Free entry

Cyber Center

Free computer stations for community members at Cyber Center

3:00 AM Free entry

4:30 AM The San Diego LGBT Community Center Free entry

Trivia with Friends

Trivia game for 50+ community before congregate meal program

3:30 AM Free entry

Congregate Meals — For Those 60 Years or Older

SBYC Monday — Community Day (In Person)

5:00 AM SBYC Free entry

Online

Grief and Loss — Discussion Group (Virtual)

Virtual discussion group for processing grief and loss

10:00 AM Free entry

Gayme Night

HERstories: LGBTQ+ Women's Social Group

8:00 PM Free entry

4:00 AM Behavioral Health Services office Free entry

Vote with Pride Mixer

Pride +1

Tuesday, Oct 6

4 events

Men's RVTIP — Relationship Violence Treatment & Intervention

$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti

Karaoke Tuesdays With Joey Adams

Don L. Live!

Wednesday, Oct 7

2 events

Online

LGBTQIA Virtual Open Peer-led Grief Support Group - MyGriefAngels.org

3:00 PM Free entry

Malik Gaines: I Folk with It

Live Show +1

Thursday, Oct 8

5 events

Dark Disney Trivia

Top Shelf Tease

2:00 PM gossipgrill.com

San Diego Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Speed Dating

6:00 PM Cork & Stem $15

Women / Sapphic

Autumn Classic LGBTQIA+ Softball Tournament

Gear XL

12:00 PM ArtReach San Diego

Friday, Oct 9

5 events

October Healing Through Artplay Workshop!

Kings Club Drag King Show

2:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage

FERAL: ARMANA KHAN - SAN DIEGO'S LGBTQ RAGER

3:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Red Dress Party San Diego

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Saturday, Oct 10

2 events

DUELING DIVA DJs

Mosaic Theatricals’ 2026 Cabaret Series

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Live Show +1

Sunday, Oct 11

8 events

Red Dress Party: Official Recovery Brunch

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Babette's Bingo

Cabaret Drag Brunch

4:00 AM Gossip Grill

Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays

4:00 AM Gossip Grill

69 BPM R&B Takeover: DJ Jocelin

8:00 AM gossipgrill.com

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Karaoke Sunday

11:00 AM Big Gay Picnic @ Balboa Park Free entry

The Big Gay Picnic: Howl-O-Ween Edition

Community +1

$6.50 Happy Hour

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $10

Tuesday, Oct 13

2 events

ShowTunes Dinner Theater Divas

SDFC Pride night

Pride

Thursday, Oct 15

4 events

Trick or Treat Trivia

Paint N Sip - Drag Queen hosted Nude Figure Painting with a DJ

12:00 PM Wicked West

Inaugural LGBTQIA+ Educators Networking Event

San Diego City College

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $35

Out at the Museum

Friday, Oct 16

4 events

SDGMC: Legends Never Die

Cabaret

Lez-B Laughs Live Comedy Show in Hillcrest

12:30 PM Cork & Stem, University Avenue, San Diego, CA, USA Free entry

Comedy

STAR LUST with DJ Shimmer

1:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

PFLAG San Diego: TWO EYES Screening

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Film Screening

Saturday, Oct 17

1 event

Halloween Market Pop Up

5:00 AM Gossip Grill

Sunday, Oct 18

3 events

Disney Gay Brunch

$6.50 Happy Hour Food

$6.50 Well Cocktails

Monday, Oct 19

2 events

Gayme Night

11:00 AM The Gossip Grill

Pride Point Network - LGBTQ+ Professionals October Mixer

Pride

Tuesday, Oct 20

1 event

$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill 15

Wednesday, Oct 21

2 events

Dreamgirls Revue

Bingo with Tom Abbas

Cabaret

Thursday, Oct 22

3 events

Witches & Wizards Trivia

SlaughterHäus

Brut: Halloween

Friday, Oct 23

5 events

San Diego Halloween 2026

2:00 PM

Freak Show

2:00 PM EQ San Diego

Fifth Annual Boo Bash

Latine Pride 2026

Pride +1

Circuit Papi

Party +1

Saturday, Oct 24

3 events

Wine Club

7:30 AM gossipgrill.com

11:00 AM Barnes Tennis Center

Pride Out Pickleball - Social & Open Play

Pride +1

Boolesque: Halloween Burlesque

12:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $15

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Sunday, Oct 25

1 event

BOO Brunch

Monday, Oct 26

1 event

EXP.Lore

10:00 AM Gossip Grill

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $15

Tuesday, Oct 27

2 events

SPOOKetti & ShowTunes: Dinner Theater Divas

Halloween Karaoke with Joey Adams

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Wednesday, Oct 28

1 event

Screamgirls Revue: Halloween Special

Thursday, Oct 29

3 events

Night of 1000 Horror Movies: Trivia

Top Shelf Tease Presents: The Fetish Show

1:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Cabaret +1

Unholy Halloween

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $25

Saturday, Oct 31

1 event

Bubbles for Brunch: Halloween Special

Wednesday, Nov 4

1 event

Bingo Gone Bonkers

10:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Friday, Nov 6

1 event

Haut Box Drag Show

11:00 AM gossipgrill.com

6:00 AM First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego

Saturday, Nov 7

2 events

Lesbians of San Diego Staged Play Reading "Coming Out Stories"

Robby Hoffman: Live On Tour

6:00 PM The Observatory North Park

Live Show

Wednesday, Nov 11

1 event

Arrowhead

All day Diversionary Theatre

Comedy +1

Thursday, Nov 12

1 event

Online

Do Something: Identity(ies) International Virtual Conference

Friday, Nov 13

2 events

Martini Happy Hour

8:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $7

SKYY Bottle Service Special

9:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Saturday, Nov 14

3 events

Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

$10 Pitchers

IMHO Live: Part 2

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $30

3:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Sunday, Nov 15

4 events

Pokémon Drag Brunch

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Sassy Sunday Funday

Party +1

Karaoke Sunday

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Hillcrest Honors 2026

Wednesday, Nov 18

1 event

Thing Beats Hulk

9:00 AM Free entry

Friday, Nov 20

1 event

UNZIP SAN DIEGO - The Fanny Pack Popup Party

2:00 PM The Brass Rail