LGBTQ+ Events in San Diego

Upcoming gay events, parties and nights out — 141 upcoming events · Sep 2026 – Mar 2027

This weekend

Fri · 9:00 AM Martini Happy Hour

SKYY Bottle Service Special Fri · 10:00 AM

Dinner with Dolly & Friends Fri · 11:00 AM

Drageteria - Lady Gaga Vs Madonna Drag concert! Fri · 1:00 PM

RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage Fri · 2:00 PM +20 more this weekend

Wednesday, Sep 23 Today

3 events

TGIW!

2:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Mischief

3:00 PM Rich's San Diego

Bingo with Tom Abbas

diversionary.org

Thursday, Sep 24 Tomorrow

7 events

Happy Hour

7:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Twilight Trivia

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1

$4 Thirsty Thursdays

11:00 AM gossipgrill.com

The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party

1:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Big Fat Gay Rave: San Diego Edition

2:00 PM Rich's San Diego

Karaoke Night

diversionary.org

Queer Salsa Social: Golden Summer

Friday, Sep 25

11 events

Martini Happy Hour

9:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $7

SKYY Bottle Service Special

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Dinner with Dolly & Friends

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $25

Drageteria - Lady Gaga Vs Madonna Drag concert!

RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage

2:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Out & Abt SD: 2010s Party @ Urban Mo's!

2:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Out & Abt: Queer House Dance Party

Finger Me Friday

2:00 PM gossipgrill.com

OMG: A Gay Afters

Wine Club

Gaypeez Presents: HorsePlay

Saturday, Sep 26

9 events

Women's Birding Guided Walk

1:30 AM Presidio Park

Bubbles for Brunch

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $25

Smarty Pants Saturday Trivia Brunch

4:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Queerqxrl: Day Party

6:00 AM Aero Club Bar

Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

$10 Pitchers

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

CumUnion

1:00 PM clubsandiego.com

Sapphic Saturdays

2:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Women / Sapphic

FFOSD Monthly Play Party

Monthly play party for Fisters at Club San Diego

Sunday, Sep 27

5 events

Cabaret Drag Brunch

4:00 AM Gossip Grill

Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays

4:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Sassy Sunday Funday

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

$6.50 Happy Hour Food

7:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

$6.50 Well Cocktails

7:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

Monday, Sep 28

7 events

HIV & STI Screenings

3:00 AM The San Diego LGBT Community Center Free entry

Congregate Meals — For Those 60 Years or Older

4:30 AM The San Diego LGBT Community Center Free entry

SBYC Monday — Community Day (In Person)

5:00 AM SBYC Free entry

Grief and Loss — Discussion Group (Virtual)

Virtual discussion group for processing grief and loss

10:00 AM Free entry

Gayme Night

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

HERstories: LGBTQ+ Women's Social Group

8:00 PM Free entry

Gay Play Tuesday

diversionary.org

Tuesday, Sep 29

4 events

Men's RVTIP — Relationship Violence Treatment & Intervention

4:00 AM Behavioral Health Services office Free entry

$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Karaoke Tuesdays With Joey Adams

12:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Live Music with Ria & Rayme

diversionary.org

Wednesday, Sep 30

4 events

Dreamgirls Revue

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill 15

Bingo Gone Bonkers: Trick Or Treat

11:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Gay Speed Dating (Ages 25+)

11:30 AM Négociant Winery

Trivia Night!

diversionary.org Free entry

Thursday, Oct 1

4 events

Tim Burton Trivia

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1

CatHaus Burlesque & Pole Dance Revue

The Oasis

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Debauchery X

Friday, Oct 2

2 events

Polyphonic Cabaret

diversionary.org

Big Queer Foodie Fest

Saturday, Oct 3

9 events

Stitch N’ Bitch (Queer Craft Meet-Up)

2:00 AM Lestat's

San Diego Saturday Night Online Speed Dating Ages 35-50 Speed Rounds

3:39 AM MV69+3G Coronado Free entry

Queer Parents and Families Park Social

10:00 AM Free entry

Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion

12:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

RIQUEZA! BURLESQUE, DRAG & MORE

12:00 PM Queen Bee's Art and Cultural Center

Bear Night OCT 3

2:00 PM EQ San Diego

Queer Tango Class + Practica

6:00 PM Yoga One $20

San Diego Gay Professionals Only Speed Dating

8:37 PM MRJ6+P8 Coronado Free entry

Art Date with Derrol

diversionary.org

Sunday, Oct 4

5 events

Third Annual Gobble Gala: Red Light District

8:00 AM Gossip Grill

Karaoke Sunday

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Supper Club

12:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Write Out Loud - LGBTQ+ Writers Group October 2026 Meetup #1

1:00 PM Free entry

$6.50 Happy Hour

7:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

Tuesday, Oct 6

1 event

Don L. Live!

diversionary.org

Wednesday, Oct 7

2 events

LGBTQIA Virtual Open Peer-led Grief Support Group - MyGriefAngels.org

3:00 PM Free entry

Malik Gaines: I Folk with It

diversionary.org

Thursday, Oct 8

5 events

Dark Disney Trivia

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1

Top Shelf Tease

2:00 PM gossipgrill.com

San Diego Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Speed Dating

6:00 PM Cork & Stem $15

Women / Sapphic

Autumn Classic LGBTQIA+ Softball Tournament

Gear XL

Friday, Oct 9

2 events

October Healing Through Artplay Workshop!

12:00 PM ArtReach San Diego

Kings Club Drag King Show

12:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Saturday, Oct 10

2 events

DUELING DIVA DJs

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Mosaic Theatricals’ 2026 Cabaret Series

diversionary.org

Sunday, Oct 11

5 events

Red Dress Party: Official Recovery Brunch

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Babette’s Bingo

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

The Pink Palace Drag Brunch

5:00 AM Saya Brasserie

69 BPM R&B Takeover: DJ Jocelin

8:00 AM gossipgrill.com

The Big Gay Picnic: Howl-O-Ween Edition

11:00 AM Big Gay Picnic @ Balboa Park Free entry

Tuesday, Oct 13

2 events

ShowTunes Dinner Theater Divas

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $10

SDFC Pride night

Thursday, Oct 15

4 events

Trick or Treat Trivia

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1

Paint N Sip - Drag Queen hosted Nude Figure Painting with a DJ

12:00 PM Wicked West

Inaugural LGBTQIA+ Educators Networking Event

San Diego City College

Out at the Museum

Friday, Oct 16

3 events

SDGMC: Legends Never Die

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $35

STAR LUST with DJ Shimmer

1:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

PFLAG San Diego: TWO EYES Screening

diversionary.org

Saturday, Oct 17

1 event

Halloween Market Pop Up

5:00 AM Gossip Grill

Sunday, Oct 18

3 events

Disney Gay Brunch

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

$6.50 Happy Hour Food

7:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

$6.50 Well Cocktails

7:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

Monday, Oct 19

2 events

Gayme Night

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Pride Point Network - LGBTQ+ Professionals October Mixer

11:00 AM Gossip Grill

Tuesday, Oct 20

1 event

$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Wednesday, Oct 21

1 event

Dreamgirls Revue

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill 15

Thursday, Oct 22

3 events

Witches & Wizards Trivia

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1

SlaughterHäus

Brut: Halloween

Friday, Oct 23

3 events

San Diego Halloween 2026

Freak Show

2:00 PM EQ San Diego

Fifth Annual Boo Bash

Saturday, Oct 24

2 events

Pride Out Pickleball - Social & Open Play

11:00 AM Barnes Tennis Center

Boolesque: Halloween Burlesque

12:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $15

Sunday, Oct 25

1 event

BOO Brunch

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Monday, Oct 26

1 event

EXP.Lore

10:00 AM Gossip Grill

Tuesday, Oct 27

2 events

SPOOKetti & ShowTunes: Dinner Theater Divas

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $15

Halloween Karaoke with Joey Adams

12:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Wednesday, Oct 28

1 event

Screamgirls Revue: Halloween Special

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Thursday, Oct 29

2 events

Night of 1000 Horror Movies: Trivia

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1

Top Shelf Tease Presents: The Fetish Show

1:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Saturday, Oct 31

1 event

Bubbles for Brunch: Halloween Special

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $25

Wednesday, Nov 4

1 event

Bingo Gone Bonkers

10:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Friday, Nov 6

3 events

Martini Happy Hour

8:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $7

SKYY Bottle Service Special

9:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Haut Box Drag Show

11:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Saturday, Nov 7

3 events

Lesbians of San Diego Staged Play Reading "Coming Out Stories"

6:00 AM First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego

Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

$10 Pitchers

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

Sunday, Nov 8

2 events

Sassy Sunday Funday

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Karaoke Sunday

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Thursday, Nov 12

1 event

Do Something: Identity(ies) International Virtual Conference

Saturday, Nov 14

1 event

IMHO Live: Part 2

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $30

Sunday, Nov 15

2 events

Pokémon Drag Brunch

3:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Hillcrest Honors 2026

Wednesday, Nov 18

1 event

Thing Beats Hulk

9:00 AM Free entry

Friday, Nov 20

1 event

UNZIP SAN DIEGO - The Fanny Pack Popup Party

2:00 PM The Brass Rail

December 2026 · 1 event open ▸

Fri 25 RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage ›

March 2027 · 5 events open ▸

Fri 5 RuPaul's Drag Race - San Diego › Fri 5 RuPaul's Drag Race Werq the World Tour › Sat 6 Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion › Sat 13 DUELING DIVA DJs › Fri 19 STAR LUST with DJ Shimmer ›

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