LGBTQ+ Events in San Diego

Upcoming gay events, parties and nights out — 141 upcoming events · Oct 2026 – May 2027

This weekend

Fri · 9:00 AM Martini Happy Hour

SKYY Bottle Service Special Fri · 10:00 AM

October Healing Through Artplay Workshop! Fri · 12:00 PM

Kings Club Drag King Show Fri · 12:00 PM

Mug Swap Fri · 1:00 PM +23 more this weekend

Monday, Oct 5 Today

2 events

HERstories: LGBTQ+ Women's Social Group

8:00 PM Free entry

Community

Vote with Pride Mixer

Pride +1

Tuesday, Oct 6 Tomorrow

8 events

Wednesday, Oct 7

8 events

Shades of Color — Discussion Group (In Person)

5:00 AM Free entry

Community

SBYC Wednesday — Ages 10-13 (In Person)

8:00 AM South Bay Youth Center Free entry

Community

Dreamgirls Revue

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill 15

Drag

Bingo Gone Bonkers: Trick Or Treat

11:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Drag

TGIW!

2:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Club Night +1

Online

LGBTQIA Virtual Open Peer-led Grief Support Group - MyGriefAngels.org

3:00 PM Free entry

Community

Mischief

3:00 PM Rich's San Diego Free entry

Drag +1

Malik Gaines: I Folk with It

diversionary.org

Live Show +1

Thursday, Oct 8

8 events

Dark Disney Trivia

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1

$4 Thirsty Thursdays

11:00 AM gossipgrill.com

The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party

1:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Party

Top Shelf Tease

2:00 PM gossipgrill.com

San Diego Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Speed Dating

6:00 PM Cork & Stem $15

Women / Sapphic

Karaoke Night

diversionary.org

Autumn Classic LGBTQIA+ Softball Tournament

All day

Party

Gear XL

All day

Party

Friday, Oct 9

9 events

Martini Happy Hour

9:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $7

SKYY Bottle Service Special

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

October Healing Through Artplay Workshop!

12:00 PM ArtReach San Diego

Community

Kings Club Drag King Show

12:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Drag

Mug Swap

1:00 PM Free entry

RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage

2:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Finger Me Friday

2:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Club Night

FERAL: Ft. Armana Khan

2:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Red Dress Party San Diego

Party

Saturday, Oct 10

9 events

Bubbles for Brunch

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $25

Drag +1

Smarty Pants Saturday Trivia Brunch

4:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Club Night

$10 Pitchers

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

DUELING DIVA DJs

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Live with Ria & Aaron

11:00 AM Free entry

Live Show

Sapphic Saturdays

2:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Women / Sapphic

FFOSD Monthly Play Party

Monthly play party for Fisters at Club San Diego

9:00 PM

Fetish

Mosaic Theatricals’ 2026 Cabaret Series

diversionary.org

Live Show +1

Sunday, Oct 11

10 events

Red Dress Party: Official Recovery Brunch

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Party

Babette's Bingo

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Drag

Cabaret Drag Brunch

4:00 AM Gossip Grill

Drag +1

Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays

4:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Club Night

Sassy Sunday Funday

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Party +1

69 BPM R&B Takeover: DJ Jocelin

8:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Club Night

The Big Gay Picnic: Howl-O-Ween Edition

11:00 AM Big Gay Picnic @ Balboa Park Free entry

Community +1

King of Drag – Watch Party

1:00 PM Free entry

Party +1

$6.50 Happy Hour Food

7:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

$6.50 Well Cocktails

7:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

Monday, Oct 12

1 event

Gayme Night

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Tuesday, Oct 13

2 events

ShowTunes Dinner Theater Divas

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $10

Drag

SDFC Pride night

Pride

Wednesday, Oct 14

1 event

LIVE with Sue Palmer!

12:00 PM The Clark Cabaret Free entry

Live Show

Thursday, Oct 15

5 events

Trick or Treat Trivia

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1

Paint N Sip - Drag Queen hosted Nude Figure Painting with a DJ

12:00 PM Wicked West

Drag +1

Pretty Paints: Rocky Horror

12:00 PM Gossip Grill

Inaugural LGBTQIA+ Educators Networking Event

San Diego City College

Community

Out at the Museum

Friday, Oct 16

7 events

SDGMC: Legends Never Die

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $35

Cabaret

Live Music with Ria & Rayme

11:00 AM Free entry

Live Show

Queer Salsa Social: Wine Not??

12:00 PM Négociant Winery

Community

Lez-B Laughs Live Comedy Show in Hillcrest

12:30 PM Cork & Stem, University Avenue, San Diego, CA, USA Free entry

Comedy

STAR LUST with DJ Shimmer

1:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Club Night

Rocky Horror Picture Show Party

2:30 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Party

PFLAG San Diego: TWO EYES Screening

diversionary.org

Film Screening

Saturday, Oct 17

3 events

Halloween Market Pop Up

5:00 AM Gossip Grill

Happy Hour

7:00 AM Gossip Grill

Queer Tango Class + Practica

6:00 PM Yoga One $20

Sunday, Oct 18

5 events

Disney Gay Brunch

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays

4:00 AM Gossip Grill

Club Night

Karaoke Sunday

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Party

$6.50 Happy Hour Food

7:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

$6.50 Well Cocktails

7:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

Monday, Oct 19

2 events

Gayme Night

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Pride Point Network - LGBTQ+ Professionals October Mixer

11:00 AM The Gossip Grill

Pride

Tuesday, Oct 20

1 event

$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Wednesday, Oct 21

3 events

Dreamgirls Revue

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill 15

Drag

Online

West Coast 30s & 40s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating

6:00 PM $15

Women / Sapphic

Bingo with Tom Abbas

diversionary.org

Cabaret

Thursday, Oct 22

3 events

Witches & Wizards Trivia

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1

SlaughterHäus

All day

Party

Brut: Halloween

All day

Party

Friday, Oct 23

5 events

San Diego Halloween 2026

2:00 PM

Freak Show

2:00 PM EQ San Diego

Fifth Annual Boo Bash

Party

Latine Pride 2026

Pride +1

Circuit Papi

All day

Party +1

Saturday, Oct 24

3 events

Wine Club

7:30 AM gossipgrill.com

Party

Pride Out Pickleball - Social & Open Play

11:00 AM Barnes Tennis Center

Pride +1

Boolesque: Halloween Burlesque

12:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $15

Drag +1

Sunday, Oct 25

2 events

BOO Brunch

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Drag

$6.50 Happy Hour

7:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

Monday, Oct 26

1 event

EXP.Lore

10:00 AM Gossip Grill

Party

Tuesday, Oct 27

2 events

SPOOKetti & ShowTunes: Dinner Theater Divas

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $15

Drag

Halloween Karaoke with Joey Adams

12:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Wednesday, Oct 28

1 event

Screamgirls Revue: Halloween Special

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Drag

Thursday, Oct 29

3 events

Night of 1000 Horror Movies: Trivia

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1

Top Shelf Tease Presents: The Fetish Show

1:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Cabaret +1

Unholy Halloween

All day

Party

Friday, Oct 30

1 event

House of Hooligans: A BTS Themed Halloween Party

2:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Party +1

Saturday, Oct 31

2 events

Bubbles for Brunch: Halloween Special

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $25

Drag

Costume Contest

1:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Sunday, Nov 1

1 event

Supper Club

11:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Drag +3

Wednesday, Nov 4

1 event

Bingo Gone Bonkers

10:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Drag

Friday, Nov 6

1 event

Haut Box Drag Show

11:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Drag

Saturday, Nov 7

3 events

Lesbians of San Diego Staged Play Reading "Coming Out Stories"

6:00 AM First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego

Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Club Night

Robby Hoffman: Live On Tour

6:00 PM The Observatory North Park

Live Show

Wednesday, Nov 11

1 event

Arrowhead

All day Diversionary Theatre

Comedy +1

Thursday, Nov 12

3 events

The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party

12:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Party

Arrowhead

7:00 PM 4545 Park Blvd, San Diego, CA, United States, California 92116

Party +3

Online

Do Something: Identity(ies) International Virtual Conference

Saturday, Nov 14

1 event

IMHO Live: Part 2

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $30

Drag +1

Sunday, Nov 15

3 events

Pokémon Drag Brunch

3:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Drag

$6.50 Happy Hour

6:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

Hillcrest Honors 2026

Community

Wednesday, Nov 18

1 event

Thing Beats Hulk

9:00 AM Free entry

Friday, Nov 20

3 events

Martini Happy Hour

8:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $7

SKYY Bottle Service Special

9:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

UNZIP SAN DIEGO - The Fanny Pack Popup Party

2:00 PM The Brass Rail

Party

Saturday, Nov 21

3 events

Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Club Night

$10 Pitchers

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

Festival of Trees 2026

Festival

Sunday, Nov 22

2 events

Sassy Sunday Funday

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Party +1

Karaoke Sunday

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Party

Thursday, Dec 3

1 event

Drag the River - 21+

8:30 PM Casbah-San Diego

Drag

Friday, Dec 25

1 event

STEAM San Diego: The Nightmare After Christmas

2:00 PM The Brass Rail

January 2027 · 1 event open ▸

Fri 8 RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage ›

February 2027 · 1 event open ▸

Wed 17 Mother Play ›

March 2027 · 5 events open ▸

Fri 5 RuPaul's Drag Race - San Diego › Fri 5 RuPaul's Drag Race Werq the World Tour › Sat 6 Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion › Sat 13 DUELING DIVA DJs › Fri 26 Crystal Methyd "The Enchanted Forest" - 18+ ›

May 2027 · 2 events open ▸

Thu 6 Alaska Thunderf*ck: The Revolution Tour › Wed 19 Take Me Out ›

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LGBTQ+ Events in San Diego

This weekend

Monday, Oct 5 Today

HERstories: LGBTQ+ Women's Social Group

Vote with Pride Mixer

Tuesday, Oct 6 Tomorrow

HIV & STI Screenings

Men's RVTIP — Relationship Violence Treatment & Intervention

Happy Hour

$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti

Ascension Lounge

Karaoke Tuesdays With Joey Adams

Zoom meeting: 🌈 Silver Rainbow Social - OC LGBTQ Social Sharing Group

Don L. Live!

Wednesday, Oct 7

Shades of Color — Discussion Group (In Person)

SBYC Wednesday — Ages 10-13 (In Person)

Dreamgirls Revue

Bingo Gone Bonkers: Trick Or Treat

TGIW!

LGBTQIA Virtual Open Peer-led Grief Support Group - MyGriefAngels.org

Mischief

Malik Gaines: I Folk with It

Thursday, Oct 8

Dark Disney Trivia

$4 Thirsty Thursdays

The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party

Top Shelf Tease

San Diego Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Speed Dating

Karaoke Night

Autumn Classic LGBTQIA+ Softball Tournament

Gear XL

Friday, Oct 9

Martini Happy Hour

SKYY Bottle Service Special

October Healing Through Artplay Workshop!

Kings Club Drag King Show

Mug Swap

RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage

Finger Me Friday

FERAL: Ft. Armana Khan

Red Dress Party San Diego

Saturday, Oct 10

Bubbles for Brunch

Smarty Pants Saturday Trivia Brunch

Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust

$10 Pitchers

DUELING DIVA DJs

Live with Ria & Aaron

Sapphic Saturdays

FFOSD Monthly Play Party

Mosaic Theatricals’ 2026 Cabaret Series

Sunday, Oct 11

Red Dress Party: Official Recovery Brunch

Babette's Bingo

Cabaret Drag Brunch

Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays

Sassy Sunday Funday

69 BPM R&B Takeover: DJ Jocelin

The Big Gay Picnic: Howl-O-Ween Edition

King of Drag – Watch Party

$6.50 Happy Hour Food

$6.50 Well Cocktails

Monday, Oct 12

Gayme Night

Tuesday, Oct 13

ShowTunes Dinner Theater Divas

SDFC Pride night

Wednesday, Oct 14

LIVE with Sue Palmer!

Thursday, Oct 15

Trick or Treat Trivia

Paint N Sip - Drag Queen hosted Nude Figure Painting with a DJ

Pretty Paints: Rocky Horror

Inaugural LGBTQIA+ Educators Networking Event

Out at the Museum

Friday, Oct 16

SDGMC: Legends Never Die

Live Music with Ria & Rayme

Queer Salsa Social: Wine Not??

Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion