LGBTQ+ Events in San Diego

Upcoming gay events, parties and nights out

179 upcoming events Oct 2026 – May 2027

When All Today Tomorrow This week This month

Oct · 115 Nov · 140 Dec · 50 Jan 27 · 9 Feb 27 · 10 Mar 27 · 12 Apr 27 · 8 May 27 · 2

What All Club Night 46 Drag 40 Party 28 Cabaret 15 Live Show 10 Women / Sapphic 9

+ 7 more

Community 8 Free Entry 7 Film Screening 6 Comedy 5 Pride 2 Fetish 2 Festival 1

This weekend

Sat · 4:00 AM Bubbles for Brunch

Sat · 7:00 AM Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust

Sat · 7:00 AM $10 Pitchers

Sat · 7:00 AM Happy Hour

Saturday, Oct 24 Tomorrow

30 events

3:30 D Dragalicious Brunch Saturdays at Lips Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA › 4:00

Bubbles for Brunch Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $25 › 4:00

Beer Bucket Special Saturdays at The Loft The Loft › 5:00

Karaoke Saturdays at The Brass Rail The Brass Rail › 7:00

Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 7:00

$10 Pitchers ↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50 › 7:00

Happy Hour The Gossip Grill › 7:00

Papi Hour at Baja Betty's Baja Betty's › 7:00 $ $10 Pitchers Every Saturday and Sunday at Urban MO's Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 7:30

Wine Club gossipgrill.com › 7:30

Wine Club: Uncorked & Unhinged The Gossip Grill › 9:00

Disco T-Dance at The Brass Rail The Brass Rail › 10:45 G Glitz and Glam Saturdays at Lips Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA › 11:00

Pride Out Pickleball - Social & Open Play Barnes Tennis Center › 12:00 B BOOlesque at Urban MO's Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 12:30

Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego - The Ultimate Drag Experience The Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego › 13:00

CumUnion › 13:00 G Gothic Moon Halloween Party at Kava Collective Kava Collective,1731 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 13:00

CumUnion at Club San Diego Club San Diego › 14:00

Boolesque: Halloween Burlesque Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $15 › 14:00

Sapphic Saturdays gossipgrill.com › 14:00

La Bomba at Number One Fifth Ave Number One Fifth Avenue › 14:00

Brief Encounters Underwear Night at Pecs Pecs Bar › 14:00 D DJ Jaefusz at Flicks Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 14:00 D Disco Slut at EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 14:00 S Saturdays at Flicks Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 15:00

Sabados En Fuego - Latin Music All Night at The Brass Rail The Brass Rail › 15:00

Underwear Party at the San Diego Eagle San Diego Eagle › 21:00

FFOSD Monthly Play Party › –

King of Drag – Watch Party ›

Sunday, Oct 25

19 events

2:00 K Kawffee and Kink with Fetish Men San Diego at Le Stat's Hillcrest Lestat's Hillcrest,1045 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92116, USA › 2:30 S Sunday Ticket at Flicks Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 3:30 D Dragalicious Gospel Brunch Sundays at Lips Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA › 4:00

BOO Brunch Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20 › 4:00

Cabaret Drag Brunch gossipgrill.com › 4:00

Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays ↳ gossipgrill.com › 4:00

Plezier Service $25 › 4:00 B BOOBrunch at Urban MO's Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 7:00

Sassy Sunday Funday Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 7:00 T Truck Stop Tea Dance in the Desert at Chill Bar (PALM SPRINGS) Chill Bar,217 E Arenas Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262, USA › 9:00

Double The Fun at Club San Diego Club San Diego › 9:00 O OutLoud Sports Halloween Boo Bash at EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 9:00

Set It Off Number One Fifth Avenue › 11:00

Karaoke Sunday Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry › 12:00 S Showstopper Sundays at Lips Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA › 14:00 D Drag Battle Royale All Stars at Rich's Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 14:00 S STUNT Halloween Spooktacular at Rich's ↳ Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 19:00

$6.50 Happy Hour Food Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50 › 19:00

$6.50 Well Cocktails ↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50 ›

Monday, Oct 26

14 events

5:00

Ugh Monday - Industry Night Pecs Bar › 7:00

Courtney’s Clubhouse at The San Diego LGBTQ Center The San Diego LGBT Community Center › 7:00 S Sin & Spaghetti Mondays Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 9:00

Meat-Up Mondays at the San Diego Eagle San Diego Eagle › 10:00

Gayme Night Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 10:00

EXP.Lore Gossip Grill › 11:00 B Burly Bear Yoga at AWOL Back Patio AWOL,1475 University Ave #1469, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 11:00 N Noodles & Doodles Mondays at Gossip Grill Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 12:00

Corn Hole - Monday Nights at Pecs Pecs Bar › 12:00

Musical Mondays at Number One Fifth Ave Number One Fifth Avenue › 12:00

Industry Night Specials at Number One Fifth Avenue ↳ Number One Fifth Avenue › 14:00 B Blue Mondays at EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › –

Gay Play Tuesday: WOLFBOY (1981) › –

Community Conversations with the San Diego Pride Board of Directors ›

Tuesday, Oct 27

7 events

27 OCT

4:00 AM

Queer Community Night

Wednesday, Oct 28

6 events

28 OCT

11:00 AM

Screamgirls Revue: Halloween Special

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Bingo Gone Bonkers: Trick Or Treat

Gay Speed Dating (Ages 25-44)

Négociant Winery

28 OCT

2:00 PM

TGIW!

gossipgrill.com

Club Night Free Entry

28 OCT

3:00 PM

Mischief

Red Dress Party San Diego

Party

Thursday, Oct 29

12 events

10:00

Latinos Unidos – Spanish Support Group (In-Person) Latin@x Services at The Center Free entry › 10:30

Phonebank with The Center – 2026 November Midterm Elections $50 › 11:00

Night of 1000 Horror Movies: Trivia Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1 › 11:00

$4 Thirsty Thursdays gossipgrill.com › 11:00

Trans Femme Support Group Free entry › 13:00

The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry › 13:00

Top Shelf Tease Presents: The Fetish Show gossipgrill.com › 13:00

BearUnion › 21:00

Big Gay Haunted Rave 1051 University Ave San Diego CA 92103 › –

Karaoke Night diversionary.org › –

Unholy Halloween › –

THE ROCKY HORROR SHOW by Prospect St. Theatre Co ›

Friday, Oct 30 Friday night

8 events

30 OCT

9:00 AM

Martini Happy Hour

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

30 OCT

10:00 AM

SKYY Bottle Service Special

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

30 OCT

2:00 PM

RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

30 OCT

2:00 PM

Finger Me Friday

House of Hooligans: A BTS Themed Halloween Party

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Party Club Night

30 OCT

2:00 PM

Out & Abt SD: Halloween!

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

30 OCT

Rotten Rentals: A Drag Show and Screening

30 OCT

Nightmare on Normal Street

Saturday, Oct 31 Saturday

9 events

31 OCT

4:00 AM

Bubbles for Brunch: Halloween Special

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Smarty Pants Saturday Trivia Brunch

gossipgrill.com

31 OCT

1:00 PM

Costume Contest

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Free entry

31 OCT

1:00 PM

Noir Room Halloween Edition

31 OCT

1:00 PM

San Diego Halloween 2026

31 OCT

3:00 PM

Possessed by the Beat ft. Jinx Mirage

Urban MO’s

31 OCT

6:00 PM

Queer Tango Class + Practica

Yoga One

31 OCT

Live Music with Ria & Rayme

31 OCT

Sober Queerious Drag Brunch - Día de los Muertos

Sunday, Nov 1

2 events

1 NOV

9:00 AM

VIDA: Dia De Los Muertos: Drag Benefit

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Supper Club

gossipgrill.com

Drag Live Show

Monday, Nov 2

1 event

2 NOV

Queer Community Connections

Tuesday, Nov 3

3 events

3 NOV

6:00 AM

Happy Hour

Gossip Grill

3 NOV

11:00 AM

Karaoke Tuesdays With Joey Adams

gossipgrill.com

3 NOV

Don L. Live!

Wednesday, Nov 4

4 events

4 NOV

10:00 AM

Bingo Gone Bonkers

gossipgrill.com

Drag

4 NOV

Trivia Night

The Clark Cabaret

Free entry

4 NOV

Popcorn + Pride: LGBTQ+ in Film Twisted Trivia

4 NOV

Online

Men’s Coming Out – Discussion Group (Virtual)

Thursday, Nov 5

1 event

5 NOV

10:30 AM

On The Spot Dating Show: Sapphic Singles Event

Gossip Grill

Friday, Nov 6 Friday night

3 events

6 NOV

11:00 AM

Haut Box Drag Show

gossipgrill.com

Drag

6 NOV

Pasión y Corazón: Our First Latinx Pageant

6 NOV

Ecos del Mictlán

Saturday, Nov 7 Saturday

5 events

7 NOV

1:00 AM

Stitch N’ Bitch (Queer Craft Meet-Up)

Lesbians of San Diego Staged Play Reading "Coming Out Stories"

First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego

7 NOV

11:00 AM

Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Club Night

7 NOV

1:00 PM

Bear Night NOV 7

EQ San Diego

7 NOV

6:00 PM

Robby Hoffman: Live On Tour

The Observatory North Park

Live Show

Sunday, Nov 8

3 events

8 NOV

3:00 AM

KPOP DRAG BRUNCH

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

8 NOV

7:00 AM

69 BPM R&B Takeover: DJ Jocelin

San Diego Gay Speed Dating for Soulmates

4067 47th St

Wednesday, Nov 11

3 events

11 NOV

10:00 AM

Sip & Draw

R Place Bar & Eatery

11 NOV

All day

Arrowhead

Diversionary Theatre

Comedy Community

11 NOV

Healing & Releasing Internalized Homophobia

Thursday, Nov 12

7 events

12 NOV

9:30 AM

SEWcial Hour with Sew Loka

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

12 NOV

12:00 PM

The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Top Shelf Tease

gossipgrill.com

12 NOV

7:00 PM

Arrowhead

Party Comedy

12 NOV

Online

Do Something: Identity(ies) International Virtual Conference

12 NOV

San Diego Soiree

12 NOV

Lesbian Cafe – Discussion Group (In Person)

Friday, Nov 13 Friday night

5 events

13 NOV

4:00 AM

Susan G Komen 3 Day for the Cure

13 NOV

11:00 AM

Kings Club Drag King Show

Resist

13 NOV

The Queerlyweds Game Series

13 NOV

The Locker Room

Saturday, Nov 14 Saturday

2 events

14 NOV

6:00 AM

DUELING DIVA DJs

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

14 NOV

10:00 AM

IMHO Live: Part 2

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Drag Comedy

$30

Sunday, Nov 15

3 events

15 NOV

3:00 AM

Pokémon Drag Brunch

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

$6.50 Happy Hour

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

$6.50

15 NOV

Hillcrest Honors 2026

Community

Wednesday, Nov 18

1 event

18 NOV

Yellow Hanky Night

Thursday, Nov 19

2 events

19 NOV

All day

Unzip

19 NOV

Red Hanky Night

Friday, Nov 20 Friday night

2 events

20 NOV

12:00 PM

STAR LUST with DJ Shimmer ✨

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Club Night

20 NOV

2:00 PM

UNZIP SAN DIEGO - The Fanny Pack Popup Party

The Brass Rail

Party

Saturday, Nov 21 Saturday

1 event

21 NOV

Festival of Trees 2026

Festival

Friday, Nov 27 Friday night

2 events

27 NOV

8:00 AM

Martini Happy Hour

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

27 NOV

9:00 AM

SKYY Bottle Service Special

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Saturday, Nov 28 Saturday

2 events

28 NOV

6:00 AM

Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Club Night

28 NOV

6:00 AM

$10 Pitchers

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

$6.50

Sunday, Nov 29

2 events

29 NOV

10:00 AM

Karaoke Sunday

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

$6.50 Happy Hour

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

$6.50

Thursday, Dec 3

1 event

3 DEC

8:30 PM

Drag the River - 21+

Casbah-San Diego

Drag

Friday, Dec 4 Friday night

2 events

4 DEC

11:00 AM

Meet Me At The Back vol. 7

The San Diego LGBT Community Center

4 DEC

11:00 AM

The Kelly Mantle Show: LIVE

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Sunday, Dec 6

1 event

6 DEC

6:00 AM

Sassy Sunday Funday

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Party Club Night

Friday, Dec 11 Friday night

1 event

11 DEC

10:30 AM

December Healing Through Artplay Workshop!

ArtReach San Diego

Friday, Dec 18 Friday night

1 event

18 DEC

10:00 AM

Tammie Brown’s Holiday Sparkle

Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Friday, Dec 25 Friday night

1 event

25 DEC

2:00 PM

STEAM San Diego: The Nightmare After Christmas

The Brass Rail

Wednesday, Dec 30

1 event

30 DEC

New Years Eve 2027 with Varla Jean Merman

Diversionary Theatre

February 2027 · 2 events open ▸

Thu 4 Bianca Del Rio: It Gets Bitter - World Comedy Tour › Wed 17 Mother Play ›

March 2027 · 6 events open ▸

Fri 5 RuPaul's Drag Race Werq the World Tour › Sat 6 Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion › Sat 13 DUELING DIVA DJs › Thu 25 The California Classic Multi-Sport LGBTQ+ Tournament › Fri 26 Crystal Methyd "The Enchanted Forest" - 18+ › Sun 28 Hans Williams ›

April 2027 · 1 event open ▸

Fri 16 STAR LUST with DJ Shimmer ›

May 2027 · 2 events open ▸

Thu 6 Alaska Thunderf*ck: The Revolution Tour › Wed 19 Take Me Out ›

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LGBTQ+ Events in San Diego

This weekend

Saturday, Oct 24 Tomorrow

Sunday, Oct 25

Monday, Oct 26

Tuesday, Oct 27

Margarita and Mezcalita Specials at The Loft

Temptation Tuesday

$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti

SPOOKetti & ShowTunes: Dinner Theater Divas

Halloween Karaoke with Joey Adams

Queer Recovery Dharma

Queer Community Night

Wednesday, Oct 28

Screamgirls Revue: Halloween Special

Bingo Gone Bonkers: Trick Or Treat

Gay Speed Dating (Ages 25-44)

TGIW!

Mischief

Red Dress Party San Diego

Thursday, Oct 29

Friday, Oct 30 Friday night

Martini Happy Hour

SKYY Bottle Service Special

RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage

Finger Me Friday

House of Hooligans: A BTS Themed Halloween Party

Out & Abt SD: Halloween!

Rotten Rentals: A Drag Show and Screening

Nightmare on Normal Street

Saturday, Oct 31 Saturday

Bubbles for Brunch: Halloween Special

Smarty Pants Saturday Trivia Brunch

Costume Contest

Noir Room Halloween Edition

San Diego Halloween 2026

Possessed by the Beat ft. Jinx Mirage

Queer Tango Class + Practica

Live Music with Ria &#038; Rayme

Sober Queerious Drag Brunch - Día de los Muertos

Sunday, Nov 1

VIDA: Dia De Los Muertos: Drag Benefit

Supper Club

Monday, Nov 2

Queer Community Connections

Tuesday, Nov 3

Happy Hour

Karaoke Tuesdays With Joey Adams

Don L. Live!

Wednesday, Nov 4

Bingo Gone Bonkers

Trivia Night

Popcorn + Pride: LGBTQ+ in Film Twisted Trivia

Men’s Coming Out – Discussion Group (Virtual)

Thursday, Nov 5

On The Spot Dating Show: Sapphic Singles Event

Friday, Nov 6 Friday night

Haut Box Drag Show

Pasión y Corazón: Our First Latinx Pageant

Ecos del Mictlán

Saturday, Nov 7 Saturday

Stitch N’ Bitch (Queer Craft Meet-Up)

Lesbians of San Diego Staged Play Reading "Coming Out Stories"

Country Western Night &#8211; Kickers Reunion

Bear Night NOV 7

Robby Hoffman: Live On Tour

Sunday, Nov 8

KPOP DRAG BRUNCH

69 BPM R&B Takeover: DJ Jocelin

San Diego Gay Speed Dating for Soulmates

Wednesday, Nov 11

Sip & Draw

Arrowhead

Healing & Releasing Internalized Homophobia

Thursday, Nov 12

SEWcial Hour with Sew Loka

The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party

Top Shelf Tease

Arrowhead

Do Something: Identity(ies) International Virtual Conference

Live Music with Ria & Rayme

Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion