LGBTQ+ Events in San Diego

8:00 AM South Bay Youth Center Free entry

SBYC Wednesday — Ages 10-13 (In Person)

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill 15

Dreamgirls Revue

Bingo Gone Bonkers: Trick Or Treat

TGIW!

3:00 PM Rich's San Diego Free entry

Club Night +1

Mischief

Malik Gaines: I Folk with It

Live Show +1

Thursday, Oct 8

9 events

Happy Hour

7:00 AM The Gossip Grill

Dark Disney Trivia

$4 Thirsty Thursdays

1:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party

Top Shelf Tease

San Diego Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Speed Dating

6:00 PM Cork & Stem $15

Women / Sapphic

Karaoke Night

Autumn Classic LGBTQIA+ Softball Tournament

Gear XL

9:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $7

Friday, Oct 9

9 events

Martini Happy Hour

SKYY Bottle Service Special

12:00 PM ArtReach San Diego

October Healing Through Artplay Workshop!

Kings Club Drag King Show

12:00 PM gossipgrill.com

2:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Mug Swap

1:00 PM Free entry

RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage

Finger Me Friday

2:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

FERAL: Ft. Armana Khan

Red Dress Party San Diego

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $25

Saturday, Oct 10

9 events

Bubbles for Brunch

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Smarty Pants Saturday Trivia Brunch

4:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

$10 Pitchers

DUELING DIVA DJs

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Live with Ria & Aaron

11:00 AM Free entry

Sapphic Saturdays

Women / Sapphic

FFOSD Monthly Play Party

Monthly play party for Fisters at Club San Diego

9:00 PM

Fetish

Mosaic Theatricals’ 2026 Cabaret Series

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Live Show +1

Sunday, Oct 11

10 events

Red Dress Party: Official Recovery Brunch

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Babette's Bingo

Cabaret Drag Brunch

4:00 AM Gossip Grill

Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays

4:00 AM gossipgrill.com

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Sassy Sunday Funday

69 BPM R&B Takeover: DJ Jocelin

8:00 AM gossipgrill.com

11:00 AM Big Gay Picnic @ Balboa Park Free entry

The Big Gay Picnic: Howl-O-Ween Edition

Community +1

King of Drag – Watch Party

1:00 PM Free entry

$6.50 Happy Hour Food

$6.50 Well Cocktails

Monday, Oct 12

7 events

Center Library is open Monday-Friday, 10AM-4PM

LGBTQ+ library open Monday-Friday for books and recommendations

3:00 AM Free entry

Cyber Center

Free computer stations for community members at Cyber Center

3:00 AM Free entry

4:30 AM The San Diego LGBT Community Center Free entry

Trivia with Friends

Trivia game for 50+ community before congregate meal program

3:30 AM Free entry

Congregate Meals — For Those 60 Years or Older

SBYC Monday — Community Day (In Person)

5:00 AM SBYC Free entry

Online

Grief and Loss — Discussion Group (Virtual)

Virtual discussion group for processing grief and loss

10:00 AM Free entry

Gayme Night

Tuesday, Oct 13

3 events

$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $10

ShowTunes Dinner Theater Divas

12:00 PM The Clark Cabaret Free entry

SDFC Pride night

Pride

Wednesday, Oct 14

1 event

LIVE with Sue Palmer!

Thursday, Oct 15

5 events

Trick or Treat Trivia

Paint N Sip - Drag Queen hosted Nude Figure Painting with a DJ

12:00 PM Wicked West

Pretty Paints: Rocky Horror

12:00 PM Gossip Grill

Inaugural LGBTQIA+ Educators Networking Event

San Diego City College

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $35

Out at the Museum

Friday, Oct 16

7 events

SDGMC: Legends Never Die

Cabaret

Live Music with Ria & Rayme

11:00 AM Free entry

12:00 PM Négociant Winery

Queer Salsa Social: Wine Not??

12:30 PM Cork & Stem, University Avenue, San Diego, CA, USA Free entry

Lez-B Laughs Live Comedy Show in Hillcrest

Comedy

STAR LUST with DJ Shimmer

1:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

2:30 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Rocky Horror Picture Show Party

PFLAG San Diego: TWO EYES Screening

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Film Screening

Saturday, Oct 17

3 events

Halloween Market Pop Up

5:00 AM Gossip Grill

Happy Hour

7:00 AM Gossip Grill

Queer Tango Class + Practica

6:00 PM Yoga One $20

Sunday, Oct 18

5 events

Disney Gay Brunch

Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays

4:00 AM Gossip Grill

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Karaoke Sunday

$6.50 Happy Hour Food

$6.50 Well Cocktails

Monday, Oct 19

2 events

Gayme Night

11:00 AM The Gossip Grill

Pride Point Network - LGBTQ+ Professionals October Mixer

Pride

Tuesday, Oct 20

1 event

$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill 15

Wednesday, Oct 21

2 events

Dreamgirls Revue

Bingo with Tom Abbas

Cabaret

Thursday, Oct 22

2 events

Witches & Wizards Trivia

Brut: Halloween

Friday, Oct 23

6 events

San Diego Halloween 2026

2:00 PM

SlaughterHäus

3:00 PM The Rail

Freak Show

3:00 PM EQ San Diego

Fifth Annual Boo Bash

Latine Pride 2026

Pride +1

Circuit Papi

Saturday, Oct 24

3 events

Wine Club

7:30 AM gossipgrill.com

11:00 AM Barnes Tennis Center

Pride Out Pickleball - Social & Open Play

Pride +1

Boolesque: Halloween Burlesque

2:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $15

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Sunday, Oct 25

2 events

BOO Brunch

$6.50 Happy Hour

Monday, Oct 26

1 event

EXP.Lore

10:00 AM Gossip Grill

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $15

Tuesday, Oct 27

2 events

SPOOKetti & ShowTunes: Dinner Theater Divas

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Halloween Karaoke with Joey Adams

12:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Wednesday, Oct 28

1 event

Screamgirls Revue: Halloween Special

Thursday, Oct 29

3 events

Night of 1000 Horror Movies: Trivia

Top Shelf Tease Presents: The Fetish Show

1:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Cabaret +1

Unholy Halloween

2:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Friday, Oct 30

1 event

House of Hooligans: A BTS Themed Halloween Party

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $25

Saturday, Oct 31

2 events

Bubbles for Brunch: Halloween Special

1:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Costume Contest

Sunday, Nov 1

1 event

Supper Club

Drag +3

Wednesday, Nov 4

1 event

Bingo Gone Bonkers

10:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Friday, Nov 6

1 event

Haut Box Drag Show

6:00 AM First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego

Saturday, Nov 7

3 events

Lesbians of San Diego Staged Play Reading "Coming Out Stories"

Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

6:00 PM The Observatory North Park

Robby Hoffman: Live On Tour

All day Diversionary Theatre

Wednesday, Nov 11

1 event

Arrowhead

Comedy +1

Thursday, Nov 12

3 events

The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party

12:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $30

Arrowhead

7:00 PM

Party +3

Online

Do Something: Identity(ies) International Virtual Conference

Saturday, Nov 14

1 event

IMHO Live: Part 2

3:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Sunday, Nov 15

3 events

Pokémon Drag Brunch

6:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

$6.50 Happy Hour

Hillcrest Honors 2026

8:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $7

Wednesday, Nov 18

1 event

Thing Beats Hulk

9:00 AM Free entry

Friday, Nov 20

3 events

Martini Happy Hour

SKYY Bottle Service Special

9:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

UNZIP SAN DIEGO - The Fanny Pack Popup Party

2:00 PM The Brass Rail

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Saturday, Nov 21

3 events

Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

$10 Pitchers

Festival of Trees 2026

Festival

Sunday, Nov 22

2 events

Sassy Sunday Funday

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Karaoke Sunday

Thursday, Dec 3

1 event

Drag the River - 21+

8:30 PM Casbah-San Diego