LGBTQ+ Events in San Diego
Upcoming gay events, parties and nights out
186 upcoming events
Oct 2026 – May 2027
This weekend
Friday, Oct 23 Tomorrow
24 events
4:00
Beer Draft Special Fridays at The Loft
The Loft
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5:00
Circle Jerk - $15 Lockers at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
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9:00
Martini Happy Hour
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$7
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10:00
SKYY Bottle Service Special
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
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10:00
H
House Head & Flashback Friday at Urban MO's
Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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12:00
G
Glitz and Glam Fridays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
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12:00
L
Leather Weather - SD Bootblack and Leather Gathering at AWOL
AWOL,1475 University Ave #1469, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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12:00
F
Friday Movie Nights at Rocko's Modern Taphouse
Rocko's Modern Taphouse,3940 Fourth Ave Ste 200, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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13:00
D
Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego - The Ultimate Drag Experience
The Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego
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13:00
C
Club X Cocktail Mixer at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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13:00
S
Sapphic Spaces Halloween Party at SD Made Factory
San Diego Made Factory,Made Factory, 2031 Commercial St #114, San Diego, CA 92113, USA
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13:00
S
Seduction Fridays at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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14:00
RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
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14:00
Finger Me Friday
gossipgrill.com
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14:00
E
Electro Pop! at Rich's
Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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14:00
R
Rush Fridays at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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15:00
SlaughterHäus
The Rail
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15:00
Freak Show
EQ San Diego
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15:00
Slaughterhäus: The SD Cut | San Diego (21+)
The Brass Rail
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19:00
🏳️🌈 LGBTQ Pride Comedy Show 7:30 Showtime
Mic Drop Comedy
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Fifth Annual Boo Bash
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Latine Pride 2026
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Circuit Papi
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Festival Mictlan: Celebration of the Underworld
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Beer Draft Special Fridays at The Loft
The Loft
›
5:00
Circle Jerk - $15 Lockers at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
›
9:00
Martini Happy Hour
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$7
›
10:00
SKYY Bottle Service Special
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
10:00
H
House Head & Flashback Friday at Urban MO's
Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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12:00
G
Glitz and Glam Fridays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
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12:00
L
Leather Weather - SD Bootblack and Leather Gathering at AWOL
AWOL,1475 University Ave #1469, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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12:00
F
Friday Movie Nights at Rocko's Modern Taphouse
Rocko's Modern Taphouse,3940 Fourth Ave Ste 200, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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13:00
D
Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego - The Ultimate Drag Experience
The Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego
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13:00
C
Club X Cocktail Mixer at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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13:00
S
Sapphic Spaces Halloween Party at SD Made Factory
San Diego Made Factory,Made Factory, 2031 Commercial St #114, San Diego, CA 92113, USA
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13:00
S
Seduction Fridays at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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14:00
RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
14:00
Finger Me Friday
gossipgrill.com
›
14:00
E
Electro Pop! at Rich's
Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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14:00
R
Rush Fridays at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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15:00
SlaughterHäus
The Rail
›
15:00
Freak Show
EQ San Diego
›
15:00
Slaughterhäus: The SD Cut | San Diego (21+)
The Brass Rail
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19:00
🏳️🌈 LGBTQ Pride Comedy Show 7:30 Showtime
Mic Drop Comedy
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Fifth Annual Boo Bash
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Latine Pride 2026
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Circuit Papi
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Festival Mictlan: Celebration of the Underworld
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Saturday, Oct 24 Saturday
29 events
3:30
D
Dragalicious Brunch Saturdays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
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4:00
Bubbles for Brunch
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$25
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4:00
Beer Bucket Special Saturdays at The Loft
The Loft
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5:00
Karaoke Saturdays at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
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7:00
Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
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7:00
$10 Pitchers
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
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7:00
Happy Hour
The Gossip Grill
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7:00
Papi Hour at Baja Betty's
Baja Betty's
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7:00
$
$10 Pitchers Every Saturday and Sunday at Urban MO's
Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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7:30
Wine Club
gossipgrill.com
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7:30
Wine Club: Uncorked & Unhinged
The Gossip Grill
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9:00
Disco T-Dance at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
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10:45
G
Glitz and Glam Saturdays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
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11:00
Pride Out Pickleball - Social & Open Play
Barnes Tennis Center
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12:00
B
BOOlesque at Urban MO's
Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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13:00
CumUnion
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13:00
G
Gothic Moon Halloween Party at Kava Collective
Kava Collective,1731 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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13:00
CumUnion at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
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14:00
Boolesque: Halloween Burlesque
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$15
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14:00
Sapphic Saturdays
gossipgrill.com
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14:00
La Bomba at Number One Fifth Ave
Number One Fifth Avenue
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14:00
Brief Encounters Underwear Night at Pecs
Pecs Bar
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14:00
D
DJ Jaefusz at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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14:00
D
Disco Slut at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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14:00
S
Saturdays at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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15:00
Sabados En Fuego - Latin Music All Night at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
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15:00
Underwear Party at the San Diego Eagle
San Diego Eagle
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21:00
FFOSD Monthly Play Party
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King of Drag – Watch Party
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Bubbles for Brunch
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$25
›
4:00
Beer Bucket Special Saturdays at The Loft
The Loft
›
5:00
Karaoke Saturdays at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
7:00
Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
7:00
$10 Pitchers
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
›
7:00
Happy Hour
The Gossip Grill
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7:00
Papi Hour at Baja Betty's
Baja Betty's
›
7:00
$
$10 Pitchers Every Saturday and Sunday at Urban MO's
Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
7:30
Wine Club
gossipgrill.com
›
7:30
Wine Club: Uncorked & Unhinged
The Gossip Grill
›
9:00
Disco T-Dance at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
10:45
G
Glitz and Glam Saturdays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
›
11:00
Pride Out Pickleball - Social & Open Play
Barnes Tennis Center
›
12:00
B
BOOlesque at Urban MO's
Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
13:00
CumUnion
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13:00
G
Gothic Moon Halloween Party at Kava Collective
Kava Collective,1731 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
13:00
CumUnion at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
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14:00
Boolesque: Halloween Burlesque
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$15
›
14:00
Sapphic Saturdays
gossipgrill.com
›
14:00
La Bomba at Number One Fifth Ave
Number One Fifth Avenue
›
14:00
Brief Encounters Underwear Night at Pecs
Pecs Bar
›
14:00
D
DJ Jaefusz at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
14:00
D
Disco Slut at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
14:00
S
Saturdays at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
15:00
Sabados En Fuego - Latin Music All Night at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
15:00
Underwear Party at the San Diego Eagle
San Diego Eagle
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21:00
FFOSD Monthly Play Party
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King of Drag – Watch Party
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Sunday, Oct 25
19 events
2:00
K
Kawffee and Kink with Fetish Men San Diego at Le Stat's Hillcrest
Lestat's Hillcrest,1045 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92116, USA
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2:30
S
Sunday Ticket at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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3:30
D
Dragalicious Gospel Brunch Sundays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
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4:00
BOO Brunch
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$20
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4:00
Cabaret Drag Brunch
gossipgrill.com
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4:00
Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays
↳ gossipgrill.com
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4:00
Plezier Service
$25
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4:00
B
BOOBrunch at Urban MO's
Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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7:00
Sassy Sunday Funday
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
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7:00
T
Truck Stop Tea Dance in the Desert at Chill Bar (PALM SPRINGS)
Chill Bar,217 E Arenas Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262, USA
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9:00
Double The Fun at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
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9:00
O
OutLoud Sports Halloween Boo Bash at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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9:00
Set It Off
Number One Fifth Avenue
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11:00
Karaoke Sunday
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Free entry
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12:00
S
Showstopper Sundays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
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14:00
D
Drag Battle Royale All Stars at Rich's
Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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14:00
S
STUNT Halloween Spooktacular at Rich's
↳ Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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19:00
$6.50 Happy Hour Food
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
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19:00
$6.50 Well Cocktails
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
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BOO Brunch
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$20
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4:00
Cabaret Drag Brunch
gossipgrill.com
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4:00
Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays
↳ gossipgrill.com
›
4:00
Plezier Service
$25
›
4:00
B
BOOBrunch at Urban MO's
Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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7:00
Sassy Sunday Funday
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
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7:00
T
Truck Stop Tea Dance in the Desert at Chill Bar (PALM SPRINGS)
Chill Bar,217 E Arenas Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262, USA
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9:00
Double The Fun at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
›
9:00
O
OutLoud Sports Halloween Boo Bash at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
9:00
Set It Off
Number One Fifth Avenue
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11:00
Karaoke Sunday
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Free entry
›
12:00
S
Showstopper Sundays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
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14:00
D
Drag Battle Royale All Stars at Rich's
Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
14:00
S
STUNT Halloween Spooktacular at Rich's
↳ Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
19:00
$6.50 Happy Hour Food
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
›
19:00
$6.50 Well Cocktails
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
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Monday, Oct 26
14 events
5:00
Ugh Monday - Industry Night
Pecs Bar
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7:00
Courtney’s Clubhouse at The San Diego LGBTQ Center
The San Diego LGBT Community Center
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7:00
S
Sin & Spaghetti Mondays
Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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9:00
Meat-Up Mondays at the San Diego Eagle
San Diego Eagle
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10:00
Gayme Night
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
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10:00
EXP.Lore
Gossip Grill
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11:00
B
Burly Bear Yoga at AWOL Back Patio
AWOL,1475 University Ave #1469, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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11:00
N
Noodles & Doodles Mondays at Gossip Grill
Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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12:00
Corn Hole - Monday Nights at Pecs
Pecs Bar
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12:00
Musical Mondays at Number One Fifth Ave
Number One Fifth Avenue
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12:00
Industry Night Specials at Number One Fifth Avenue
↳ Number One Fifth Avenue
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14:00
B
Blue Mondays at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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Gay Play Tuesday: WOLFBOY (1981)
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Community Conversations with the San Diego Pride Board of Directors
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Ugh Monday - Industry Night
Pecs Bar
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7:00
Courtney’s Clubhouse at The San Diego LGBTQ Center
The San Diego LGBT Community Center
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7:00
S
Sin & Spaghetti Mondays
Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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9:00
Meat-Up Mondays at the San Diego Eagle
San Diego Eagle
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10:00
Gayme Night
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
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10:00
EXP.Lore
Gossip Grill
›
11:00
B
Burly Bear Yoga at AWOL Back Patio
AWOL,1475 University Ave #1469, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
11:00
N
Noodles & Doodles Mondays at Gossip Grill
Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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12:00
Corn Hole - Monday Nights at Pecs
Pecs Bar
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12:00
Musical Mondays at Number One Fifth Ave
Number One Fifth Avenue
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12:00
Industry Night Specials at Number One Fifth Avenue
↳ Number One Fifth Avenue
›
14:00
B
Blue Mondays at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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Gay Play Tuesday: WOLFBOY (1981)
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Community Conversations with the San Diego Pride Board of Directors
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Tuesday, Oct 27
7 events
27
OCT
4:00 AM
Margarita and Mezcalita Specials at The Loft
The Loft
27
OCT
5:00 AM
Temptation Tuesday
Party
Pride
27
OCT
10:00 AM
$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
27
OCT
11:00 AM
SPOOKetti & ShowTunes: Dinner Theater Divas
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Drag
$15
27
OCT
12:00 PM
Halloween Karaoke with Joey Adams
gossipgrill.com
Q
27
OCT
7:00 PM
Queer Recovery Dharma
Gather Coffee and Kava
27
OCT
Queer Community Night
Wednesday, Oct 28
6 events
28
OCT
11:00 AM
Screamgirls Revue: Halloween Special
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Drag
$20
28
OCT
11:00 AM
Bingo Gone Bonkers: Trick Or Treat
gossipgrill.com
Drag
G
28
OCT
11:30 AM
Gay Speed Dating (Ages 25-44)
Négociant Winery
28
OCT
2:00 PM
TGIW!
gossipgrill.com
Club Night
Free Entry
28
OCT
3:00 PM
Mischief
Rich's San Diego
Drag
Free Entry
Free entry
28
OCT
Red Dress Party San Diego
Party
Thursday, Oct 29
12 events
10:00
Latinos Unidos – Spanish Support Group (In-Person)
Latin@x Services at The Center
Free entry
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10:30
Phonebank with The Center – 2026 November Midterm Elections
$50
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11:00
Night of 1000 Horror Movies: Trivia
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$1
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11:00
$4 Thirsty Thursdays
gossipgrill.com
›
11:00
Trans Femme Support Group
Free entry
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13:00
The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Free entry
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13:00
Top Shelf Tease Presents: The Fetish Show
gossipgrill.com
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13:00
BearUnion
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21:00
Big Gay Haunted Rave
1051 University Ave San Diego CA 92103
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Karaoke Night
diversionary.org
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Unholy Halloween
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THE ROCKY HORROR SHOW by Prospect St. Theatre Co
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Latinos Unidos – Spanish Support Group (In-Person)
Latin@x Services at The Center
Free entry
›
10:30
Phonebank with The Center – 2026 November Midterm Elections
$50
›
11:00
Night of 1000 Horror Movies: Trivia
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$1
›
11:00
$4 Thirsty Thursdays
gossipgrill.com
›
11:00
Trans Femme Support Group
Free entry
›
13:00
The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Free entry
›
13:00
Top Shelf Tease Presents: The Fetish Show
gossipgrill.com
›
13:00
BearUnion
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21:00
Big Gay Haunted Rave
1051 University Ave San Diego CA 92103
›
–
Karaoke Night
diversionary.org
›
–
Unholy Halloween
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–
THE ROCKY HORROR SHOW by Prospect St. Theatre Co
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Friday, Oct 30 Friday night
4 events
Saturday, Oct 31 Saturday
8 events
31
OCT
4:00 AM
Bubbles for Brunch: Halloween Special
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Drag
$25
31
OCT
4:00 AM
Smarty Pants Saturday Trivia Brunch
gossipgrill.com
31
OCT
1:00 PM
Costume Contest
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Free entry
31
OCT
1:00 PM
Noir Room Halloween Edition
31
OCT
1:00 PM
San Diego Halloween 2026
31
OCT
3:00 PM
Possessed by the Beat ft. Jinx Mirage
Urban MO’s
Q
31
OCT
6:00 PM
Queer Tango Class + Practica
Yoga One
31
OCT
Live Music with Ria & Rayme
Sunday, Nov 1
2 events
Tuesday, Nov 3
3 events
Wednesday, Nov 4
2 events
Thursday, Nov 5
2 eventsFriday, Nov 6 Friday night
1 event
Saturday, Nov 7 Saturday
5 events
S
7
NOV
1:00 AM
Stitch N’ Bitch (Queer Craft Meet-Up)
Lestat's
Community
7
NOV
6:00 AM
Lesbians of San Diego Staged Play Reading "Coming Out Stories"
First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego
7
NOV
11:00 AM
Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Club Night
7
NOV
1:00 PM
Bear Night NOV 7
EQ San Diego
7
NOV
6:00 PM
Robby Hoffman: Live On Tour
The Observatory North Park
Live Show
Sunday, Nov 8
3 events
Wednesday, Nov 11
2 events
Thursday, Nov 12
5 events
12
NOV
9:30 AM
SEWcial Hour with Sew Loka
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
12
NOV
12:00 PM
The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Party
Free entry
12
NOV
1:00 PM
Top Shelf Tease
gossipgrill.com
12
NOV
7:00 PM
Arrowhead
Party
Comedy
12
NOV
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