LGBTQ+ Events in San Diego

Upcoming gay events, parties and nights out — 186 upcoming events · Oct 2026 – May 2027

This weekend

Sun · 7:00 AM Sassy Sunday Funday

Papi Hour at Baja Betty's Sun · 7:00 AM West of Lincoln at Punch Bowl Social Sun · 7:00 AM $10 Pitchers Every Saturday and Sunday at Urban MO's Sun · 7:00 AM The Twilight Bone at The Brass Rail Sun · 7:00 AM +35 more this weekend

Sunday, Oct 18 Today

16 events

7:00 Sassy Sunday Funday Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 7:00 Papi Hour at Baja Betty's Baja Betty's › 7:00 West of Lincoln at Punch Bowl Social Punch Bowl Social,1485 E St, San Diego, CA 92101, USA › 7:00 $10 Pitchers Every Saturday and Sunday at Urban MO's Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 7:00 The Twilight Bone at The Brass Rail The Brass Rail › 9:00 Double The Fun at Club San Diego Club San Diego › 9:00 Set It Off Number One Fifth Avenue › 11:00 Karaoke Sunday Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry › 12:00 Showstopper Sundays at Lips Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA › 13:00 King of Drag – Watch Party Free entry › 13:00 Write Out Loud - LGBTQ+ Writers Group October 2026 Meetup #2 Free entry › 13:00 Monday Mamis at The Brass Rail The Brass Rail › 14:00 Drag Battle Royale All Stars at Rich's Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 14:00 STUNT Sundays at Rich's ↳ Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 19:00 $6.50 Well Cocktails Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50 › 19:00 $6.50 Happy Hour ↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50 ›

Monday, Oct 19 Tomorrow

14 events

5:00 Ugh Monday - Industry Night Pecs Bar › 7:00 Courtney’s Clubhouse at The San Diego LGBTQ Center The San Diego LGBT Community Center › 7:00 Sin & Spaghetti Mondays Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 9:00 Meat-Up Mondays at the San Diego Eagle San Diego Eagle › 10:00 Gayme Night Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 11:00 Pride Point Network - LGBTQ+ Professionals October Mixer The Gossip Grill › 11:00 Burly Bear Yoga at AWOL Back Patio AWOL,1475 University Ave #1469, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 11:00 Noodles & Doodles Mondays at Gossip Grill Gossip Grill,1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 11:30 Trivia Night Mondays at Flicks Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 12:00 Corn Hole - Monday Nights at Pecs Pecs Bar › 12:00 Musical Mondays at Number One Fifth Ave Number One Fifth Avenue › 12:00 Industry Night Specials at Number One Fifth Avenue ↳ Number One Fifth Avenue › 14:00 Blue Mondays at EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 20:00 HERstories: LGBTQ+ Women's Social Group ›

Tuesday, Oct 20

11 events

Margarita and Mezcalita Specials at The Loft

4:00 AM The Loft

Tequila Tuesdays at SRO

7:00 AM SRO Lounge

$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Taco Tuesday at Baja Betty’s

10:00 AM Baja Betty's

Heather Hardcore & Guests

11:00 AM The Rail,3796 Fifth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA

Ascension Lounge

11:30 AM Ohmazing Art of Healing

Karaoke Tuesdays With Joey Adams

12:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Tiger's Pictionary and Late Night Karaoke at Number One Fifth Avenue

12:30 PM Number One Fifth Avenue

Sanctuary DNB Tuesdays

1:00 PM EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA

HATHA FOUNDATIONS NAKED YOGA at Healing Space Ocean Beach

1:15 PM Healing Space,2183 Bacon St, San Diego, CA 92107, USA

Don L. Live!

Wednesday, Oct 21

22 events

4:00 Seltzer Special Wednesdays at The Loft The Loft › 7:00 Gonewild Wednesdays - Happy Hour at SRO Lounge SRO Lounge › 9:00 Fetish Wear Night at The San Diego Eagle San Diego Eagle › 11:00 Dreamgirls Revue Urban Mo's Bar & Grill 15 › 11:00 Bingo Gone Bonkers: Trick Or Treat gossipgrill.com › 11:00 Big Gay Trivia at Flicks Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 11:00 BOYTOY Wednesdays at Club San Diego Club San Diego › 11:30 FRANKEN-STUFFIE: A Sip, Snip & Stitch Craft Night at Negociant Winery › 12:00 Where to Be Wednesdays at Pecs Pecs Bar › 13:00 Dive Bar Wednesdays and Trivia at Number One Fifth Avenue Number One Fifth Avenue › 13:00 Detour Wednesdays at The Brass Rail The Brass Rail › 13:00 Whiplash Wednesdays at The Brass Rail ↳ The Brass Rail › 14:00 TGIW! gossipgrill.com › 14:00 DRESS CODE Wednesdays at EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 14:00 Welfare Wednesdays at Flicks Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 15:00 Mischief Rich's San Diego Free entry › 15:00 Mischief Wednesdays at Rich's Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 18:00 West Coast 30s & 40s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating $15 › – Bingo with Tom Abbas diversionary.org › – Red Dress Party San Diego › – The Alliance San Diego Presents: 2026 Harvest Howl › – Buy One Get One Lockers at Club San Diego Club San Diego ›

Thursday, Oct 22

22 events

4:00 Wine & Champagne Specials Thursday at The Loft The Loft › 7:00 Happy Hour The Gossip Grill › 7:00 Martini Thursdays at SRO Lounge! SRO Lounge › 10:00 Latinos Unidos – Spanish Support Group (In-Person) Latin@x Services at The Center Free entry › 10:00 Wine About It - $8 Glasses of Wine at Uptown Tavern Uptown Tavern,1236 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 10:30 Phonebank with The Center – 2026 November Midterm Elections $50 › 11:00 Witches & Wizards Trivia Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1 › 11:00 $4 Thirsty Thursdays gossipgrill.com › 11:00 Trans Femme Support Group Free entry › 11:00 Trivia Night at Storyhouse Spirits Storyhouse Spirits,1220 J Street › 11:00 Karaoke Thursdays at the Brass Rail The Brass Rail › 11:30 Jazz Night in the Cellar at Negociant Winery › 12:00 The Traitors Watch Party at R Place R Place,1027 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 12:00 BITCHY BINGO Wednesdays at Lips Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA › 12:00 The Divas! Thursdays at Lips ↳ Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA › 13:00 BearUnion › 13:00 Toxica: Featuring Vanessa Vanjie Mateo at Flicks Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA › 14:00 Seance at The Brass Rail The Brass Rail › – Karaoke Night diversionary.org › – Brut: Halloween › – SlaughterHäus › – FALL 2026 HUMP! Film Festival – Night 1 ›

Friday, Oct 23

12 events

9:00 Martini Happy Hour Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $7 › 10:00 SKYY Bottle Service Special ↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 13:00 Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego - The Ultimate Drag Experience The Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego › 14:00 RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 14:00 Finger Me Friday gossipgrill.com › 15:00 Freak Show EQ San Diego › 15:00 Slaughterhäus: The SD Cut | San Diego (21+) The Brass Rail › 19:00 🏳️‍🌈 LGBTQ Pride Comedy Show 7:30 Showtime Mic Drop Comedy › – Fifth Annual Boo Bash › – Latine Pride 2026 › – Circuit Papi › – Festival Mictlan: Celebration of the Underworld ›

Saturday, Oct 24

12 events

4:00 Bubbles for Brunch Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $25 › 4:00 Smarty Pants Saturday Trivia Brunch gossipgrill.com › 7:00 Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust Urban Mo's Bar & Grill › 7:00 $10 Pitchers ↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50 › 7:00 Happy Hour Gossip Grill › 7:30 Wine Club gossipgrill.com › 7:30 Wine Club: Uncorked & Unhinged The Gossip Grill › 11:00 Pride Out Pickleball - Social & Open Play Barnes Tennis Center › 13:00 CumUnion › 14:00 Boolesque: Halloween Burlesque Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $15 › 14:00 Sapphic Saturdays gossipgrill.com › – King of Drag – Watch Party ›

Sunday, Oct 25

6 events

BOO Brunch

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Cabaret Drag Brunch

4:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays

4:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Plezier Service

$6.50 Happy Hour Food

7:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

$6.50 Well Cocktails

7:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

Monday, Oct 26

2 events

EXP.Lore

10:00 AM Gossip Grill

Gay Play Tuesday: WOLFBOY (1981)

Tuesday, Oct 27

3 events

Temptation Tuesday

SPOOKetti & ShowTunes: Dinner Theater Divas

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $15

Halloween Karaoke with Joey Adams

12:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Wednesday, Oct 28

4 events

Screamgirls Revue: Halloween Special

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Gay Speed Dating (Ages 25-44)

11:30 AM Négociant Winery

West Coast 40s & 50s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating

SYMPTOMS (1974), a rare lesbian psychological thriller

Thursday, Oct 29

6 events

Night of 1000 Horror Movies: Trivia

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1

The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party

1:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Top Shelf Tease Presents: The Fetish Show

1:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Big Gay Haunted Rave

9:00 PM 1051 University Ave San Diego CA 92103

Unholy Halloween

THE ROCKY HORROR SHOW by Prospect St. Theatre Co

Friday, Oct 30

3 events

House of Hooligans: A BTS Themed Halloween Party

2:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Out & Abt SD: Halloween!

2:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Rotten Rentals: A Drag Show and Screening

Saturday, Oct 31

4 events

Bubbles for Brunch: Halloween Special

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $25

Costume Contest

1:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Noir Room Halloween Edition

Live Music with Ria & Rayme

Sunday, Nov 1

2 events

VIDA: Dia De Los Muertos: Drag Benefit

9:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Supper Club

11:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Wednesday, Nov 4

2 events

Bingo Gone Bonkers

10:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Trivia Night

The Clark Cabaret Free entry

Thursday, Nov 5

2 events

On The Spot Dating Show: Sapphic Singles Event

10:30 AM Gossip Grill

️‍ Popcorn + Pride: LGBTQ+ in Film Twisted Trivia

11:00 AM Pali Wine Co.

Friday, Nov 6

1 event

Haut Box Drag Show

11:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Saturday, Nov 7

4 events

Stitch N’ Bitch (Queer Craft Meet-Up)

1:00 AM Lestat's

Lesbians of San Diego Staged Play Reading "Coming Out Stories"

6:00 AM First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego

Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Robby Hoffman: Live On Tour

6:00 PM The Observatory North Park

Sunday, Nov 8

2 events

69 BPM R&B Takeover: DJ Jocelin

7:00 AM gossipgrill.com

San Diego Gay Speed Dating for Soulmates

1:00 PM 4067 47th St

Wednesday, Nov 11

1 event

Arrowhead

All day Diversionary Theatre

Thursday, Nov 12

4 events

The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party

12:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Top Shelf Tease

1:00 PM gossipgrill.com

Arrowhead

Do Something: Identity(ies) International Virtual Conference

Friday, Nov 13

3 events

Susan G Komen 3 Day for the Cure

Kings Club Drag King Show

11:00 AM gossipgrill.com

Resist

Saturday, Nov 14

2 events

DUELING DIVA DJs

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

IMHO Live: Part 2

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $30

Sunday, Nov 15

3 events

Pokémon Drag Brunch

3:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

$6.50 Happy Hour

6:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

Hillcrest Honors 2026

Wednesday, Nov 18

1 event

Thing Beats Hulk

9:00 AM Free entry

Friday, Nov 20

2 events

STAR LUST with DJ Shimmer ✨

12:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

UNZIP SAN DIEGO - The Fanny Pack Popup Party

2:00 PM The Brass Rail

Saturday, Nov 21

1 event

Festival of Trees 2026

Friday, Nov 27

2 events

Martini Happy Hour

8:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $7

SKYY Bottle Service Special

9:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Saturday, Nov 28

2 events

Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

$10 Pitchers

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

Sunday, Nov 29

1 event

Karaoke Sunday

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Thursday, Dec 3

1 event

Drag the River - 21+

8:30 PM Casbah-San Diego

Friday, Dec 4

1 event

Meet Me At The Back vol. 7

11:00 AM The San Diego LGBT Community Center

Sunday, Dec 6

1 event

Sassy Sunday Funday

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Friday, Dec 11

1 event

December Healing Through Artplay Workshop!

10:30 AM ArtReach San Diego

Friday, Dec 25

1 event

STEAM San Diego: The Nightmare After Christmas

2:00 PM The Brass Rail

February 2027 · 2 events open ▸

Thu 4 Bianca Del Rio: It Gets Bitter - World Comedy Tour › Wed 17 Mother Play ›

March 2027 · 5 events open ▸

Fri 5 RuPaul's Drag Race Werq the World Tour › Sat 6 Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion › Sat 13 DUELING DIVA DJs › Fri 26 Crystal Methyd "The Enchanted Forest" - 18+ › Sun 28 Hans Williams ›

May 2027 · 2 events open ▸

Thu 6 Alaska Thunderf*ck: The Revolution Tour › Wed 19 Take Me Out ›

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