LGBTQ+ Events in San Diego
Upcoming gay events, parties and nights out
200 upcoming events
Sep 2026 – May 2027
This weekend
Friday, Sep 18 Today
9 events
18
SEP
1:00 PM
STAR LUST with DJ Shimmer ✨
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Club Night
18
SEP
1:00 PM
Disco Genetica
Til-Two Club
18
SEP
1:00 PM
Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego - The Ultimate Drag Experience
The Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego
Party
Drag
18
SEP
2:00 PM
Finger Me Friday
Gossip Grill
Club Night
18
SEP
3:00 PM
STEAM Towel Party San Diego - September Edition
The Brass Rail
Party
18
SEP
7:00 PM
Killers of Kill Tony
San Diego Civic Theatre
Comedy
18
SEP
7:00 PM
LGBTQ Comedy Show - 7:30 showtime
Comedy
Community
Free entry
18
SEP
HIV & STI Screenings – Saturdays
The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
18
SEP
Noir Room
Saturday, Sep 19 Tomorrow
6 events
19
SEP
4:00 AM
Bubbles for Brunch
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Drag
Cabaret
$25
19
SEP
7:00 AM
Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Club Night
19
SEP
7:00 AM
$10 Pitchers
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
19
SEP
11:00 AM
IMHO Live
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Drag
Comedy
$30
19
SEP
6:00 PM
Queer Tango Class + Practica
Yoga One
$20
19
SEP
9:00 PM
FFOSD Monthly Play Party
Monthly play party for Fisters at Club San Diego
Fetish
Sunday, Sep 20
16 events
4:00
Drag March: Drag Brunch
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$25
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7:00
Sassy Sunday Funday
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
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19:00
$6.50 Happy Hour Food
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
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19:00
$6.50 Well Cocktails
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
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Crisis Services Drop-In at SBYC
The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Grief & Loss – Discussion Group (Virtual)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Crafty Hour at HYC
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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SBYC Monday – Community Day (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Feeling Fit Classes (Online)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Golden Lotus Discussion Group
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Meth Relapse Prevention (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Transgender and Nonbinary Coming Out Group (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Women’s Discussion Group
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Center Library is open Monday-Friday, 10AM-4PM
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Cyber Center
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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HIV & STI Screenings
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Monday, Sep 21
22 events
4:30
Congregate Meals — For Those 60 Years or Older
The San Diego LGBT Community Center
Free entry
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10:00
Gayme Night
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
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10:30
Trivia with Friends
The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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18:00
Golden Lotus Discussion Group
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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19:00
SBYC Monday – Community Day (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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19:30
Meth Relapse Prevention (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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20:00
HERstories: LGBTQ+ Women's Social Group
Free entry
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Men’s RVTIP – Relationship Violence Treatment & Intervention
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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50+ & Better Together Game Day (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Senior Food Bank (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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RVTIP – Transgender & Nonbinary
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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HYC Tuesdays – Social Meetup for Ages 10-13 (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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SBYC Tuesday – Ages 14-18 (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Mental Health Services Drop-in at SBYC – Ages 14-18 & 18-24
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Relational Wellness Group (Virtual)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Art & Connect at HYC
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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SBYC Tues – Gender Identity Support Group, Ages 14-18 (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Recovery Together
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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GBT Men Living with HIV – Tuesdays (Virtual)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Prostate Cancer – Support Group
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Congregate Meals – For Those 60 Years or Older
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Tech On The Go
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Tuesday, Sep 22
19 events
3:00
HIV & STI Screenings
The Center
Free entry
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5:00
Temptation Tuesday
clubsandiego.com
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10:00
Future-Proofing Your Life Science Toolkit
Pacific Center Sterling Bay
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10:00
$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
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17:30
Relational Wellness Group (Virtual)
The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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17:30
SBYC Tues – Gender Identity Support Group, Ages 14-18 (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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18:00
Mental Health Services Drop-in at SBYC – Ages 14-18 & 18-24
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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19:30
GBT Men Living with HIV – Tuesdays (Virtual)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Shades of Color – Discussion Group (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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50+ And Better Together: Ageless Art Group
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Trans(Gender) 101 Training
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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HYC Wednesday – Social Meetup for Ages 14-18 (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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HYC Stories and Sweets Book Club (13-24)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Social-Emotional Group at HYC
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Women’s Coming Out Group (Virtual)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Survivors of RV/IPV – All Genders (Virtual)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Men's Discussion Group
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Community Wall of Honor Induction Ceremony 2026
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Trans Masculine Discussion Group (Virtual)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Wednesday, Sep 23
13 events
11:00
Dreamgirls Revue
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$20
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11:30
Red Wine & Vibes: PAINT YOUR DATE!
Negociant Winery
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19:00
Survivors of RV/IPV – All Genders (Virtual)
The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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19:00
Trans Masculine Discussion Group (Virtual)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Bingo with Tom Abbas
diversionary.org
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Project Compassion
The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Senior Drop-In (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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HYC Thursday – Tour Day (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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SBYC Thursday – Ages 18-24 (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Family Services Drop-In at HYC
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Latinos Unidos – Support Group in Spanish (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Sober Curious
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Trans Femme Support Group
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Thursday, Sep 24
14 events
11:00
Twilight Trivia
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$1
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13:00
The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Free entry
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14:00
Big Fat Gay Rave: San Diego Edition
Rich's San Diego
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18:00
Sober Curious
The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Art & Connect at HYC
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Karaoke Night
diversionary.org
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Yoga at The Center
The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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SBYC Friday – Community Day (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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HYC Friday – Social Meetup for Ages 18-24 (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Family Services Drop-In at SBYC
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Transgender 2000 – Support Group (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Crafty Hour at HYC
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Lesbian Cafe – Early Evening Discussion Group (In Person)
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Black Trans & Nonbinary Community Group
↳ The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
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Friday, Sep 25 Friday night
9 events
25
SEP
9:00 AM
Martini Happy Hour
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$7
25
SEP
10:00 AM
SKYY Bottle Service Special
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
25
SEP
11:00 AM
Dinner with Dolly & Friends
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Drag
$25
25
SEP
1:00 PM
Drageteria - Lady Gaga Vs Madonna Drag concert!
Rich's
Drag
Live Show
25
SEP
2:00 PM
RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
25
SEP
2:00 PM
Out & Abt SD: 2010s Party @ Urban Mo's!
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Party
25
SEP
2:00 PM
Out & Abt: Queer House Dance Party
Party
Drag
25
SEP
7:00 PM
OMG: A Gay Afters
Party
25
SEP
Uncorked & Unhinged Wine Club
Saturday, Sep 26 Saturday
3 events
Sunday, Sep 27
9 events
27
SEP
4:00 AM
Cabaret Drag Brunch
Gossip Grill
Drag
Cabaret
27
SEP
11:00 AM
Karaoke Sunday
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Party
Free entry
27
SEP
7:00 PM
$6.50 Happy Hour
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
27
SEP
Trivia with Friends
The San Diego LGBT Center
Community
Free entry
27
SEP
Crisis Services Drop-In at SBYC
The San Diego LGBT Center
Community
Free entry
27
SEP
Online
Grief and Loss – Discussion Group (Virtual)
The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
27
SEP
My Family – Support Group In Spanish (In Person)
The San Diego LGBT Center
Community
Free entry
27
SEP
Many Minds
The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
27
SEP
Online
Transgender and Nonbinary Coming Out Group (Virtual)
The San Diego LGBT Center
Free entry
Monday, Sep 28
2 events
Tuesday, Sep 29
4 events
29
SEP
7:00 PM
Oh, Mary! (Touring)
San Diego Civic Theatre
Comedy
29
SEP
SBYC Wednesday – Ages 10-13 (In Person)
The San Diego LGBT Center
Community
Free entry
29
SEP
Las Manzanitas – Support Group In Spanish (In Person)
The San Diego LGBT Center
Community
Free entry
29
SEP
Live Music with Ria & Rayme
diversionary.org
Live Show
Community
Wednesday, Sep 30
5 events
30
SEP
11:30 AM
Gay Speed Dating (Ages 25+)
Négociant Winery
30
SEP
Trivia Night!
diversionary.org
Cabaret
Free entry
30
SEP
Youth HIV Testing at SBYC – Ages 18-24
The San Diego LGBT Center
Community
Free entry
30
SEP
PACT – Parents and Caregivers of Transgender/Nonbinary family members
The San Diego LGBT Center
Community
Free entry
30
SEP
Online
Men’s Coming Out – Discussion Group (Virtual)
The San Diego LGBT Center
Community
Free entry
Thursday, Oct 1
3 events
Friday, Oct 2 Friday night
1 event
Saturday, Oct 3 Saturday
5 events
3
OCT
2:00 AM
Stitch N’ Bitch (Queer Craft Meet-Up)
Lestat's
Community
3
OCT
3:39 AM
Online
San Diego Saturday Night Online Speed Dating Ages 35-50 Speed Rounds
MV69+3G Coronado
Community
Free entry
3
OCT
12:00 PM
Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Club Night
3
OCT
8:37 PM
San Diego Gay Professionals Only Speed Dating
MRJ6+P8 Coronado
Free entry
3
OCT
Art Date with Derrol
diversionary.org
Sunday, Oct 4
1 event
Tuesday, Oct 6
1 event
Wednesday, Oct 7
1 event
Thursday, Oct 8
3 events
Friday, Oct 9 Friday night
1 event
Saturday, Oct 10 Saturday
2 events
Sunday, Oct 11
4 events
11
OCT
4:00 AM
Red Dress Party: Official Recovery Brunch
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Party
11
OCT
4:00 AM
Babette’s Bingo
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Drag
$20
11
OCT
5:00 AM
The Pink Palace Drag Brunch
Saya Brasserie
Drag
11
OCT
7:00 PM
The Rocky Horror Picture Show Ft. Patricia Quinn
Balboa Theatre
Live Show
Film Screening
Tuesday, Oct 13
1 event
Thursday, Oct 15
3 events
Friday, Oct 16 Friday night
2 events
Saturday, Oct 17 Saturday
1 event
Sunday, Oct 18
3 events
Monday, Oct 19
1 event
Tuesday, Oct 20
1 event
Wednesday, Oct 21
1 event
Thursday, Oct 22
1 event
Friday, Oct 23 Friday night
3 events
Saturday, Oct 24 Saturday
2 events
Sunday, Oct 25
1 event
Monday, Oct 26
1 event
Tuesday, Oct 27
1 event
Wednesday, Oct 28
1 event
Thursday, Oct 29
1 event
Saturday, Oct 31 Saturday
1 event
Friday, Nov 6 Friday night
2 eventsSaturday, Nov 7 Saturday
5 events
7
NOV
6:00 AM
Lesbians of San Diego Staged Play Reading "Coming Out Stories"
First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego
7
NOV
6:00 AM
Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Club Night
7
NOV
6:00 AM
$10 Pitchers
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
7
NOV
6:00 PM
Robby Hoffman: Live On Tour
The Observatory North Park
Live Show
7
NOV
10:00 PM
Sapphic Saturdays
Women / Sapphic
