LGBTQ+ Events in San Diego

Upcoming gay events, parties and nights out — 122 upcoming events · Sep 2026 – Mar 2027

This weekend

Fri · 9:00 AM Martini Happy Hour

SKYY Bottle Service Special Fri · 10:00 AM

Dinner with Dolly & Friends Fri · 11:00 AM

Drageteria - Lady Gaga Vs Madonna Drag concert! Fri · 1:00 PM

RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage Fri · 2:00 PM +15 more this weekend

Monday, Sep 21 Today

3 events

Online

Grief and Loss — Discussion Group (Virtual)

Virtual discussion group for processing grief and loss

10:00 AM Free entry

Gayme Night

Gayme night with video games, board games, darts, and happy hour

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

HERstories: LGBTQ+ Women's Social Group

8:00 PM Free entry

Community

Tuesday, Sep 22 Tomorrow

7 events

Wednesday, Sep 23

6 events

Shades of Color — Discussion Group (In Person)

5:00 AM Free entry

Community

SBYC Wednesday — Ages 10-13 (In Person)

8:00 AM South Bay Youth Center Free entry

Community

Dreamgirls Revue

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Drag

Red Wine & Vibes: PAINT YOUR DATE!

11:30 AM Negociant Winery

Mischief

3:00 PM Rich's San Diego

Drag +1

Bingo with Tom Abbas

diversionary.org

Cabaret

Thursday, Sep 24

4 events

Twilight Trivia

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1

The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party

1:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Party

Big Fat Gay Rave: San Diego Edition

2:00 PM Rich's San Diego

Party +1

Karaoke Night

diversionary.org

Friday, Sep 25

8 events

Martini Happy Hour

9:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $7

SKYY Bottle Service Special

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Dinner with Dolly & Friends

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $25

Drag

Drageteria - Lady Gaga Vs Madonna Drag concert!

1:00 PM Rich's

Drag +1

RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage

2:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Out & Abt SD: 2010s Party @ Urban Mo's!

2:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Party

Out & Abt: Queer House Dance Party

2:00 PM

Party +1

OMG: A Gay Afters

7:00 PM

Party

Saturday, Sep 26

8 events

Women's Birding Guided Walk

1:30 AM Presidio Park

Bubbles for Brunch

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $25

Drag +1

Queerqxrl: Day Party

6:00 AM Aero Club Bar

Party

Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Club Night

$10 Pitchers

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

Wine Club: Uncorked & Unhinged

7:30 AM Gossip Grill

CumUnion

1:00 PM clubsandiego.com

FFOSD Monthly Play Party

Monthly play party for Fisters at Club San Diego

9:00 PM

Fetish

Sunday, Sep 27

4 events

Cabaret Drag Brunch

4:00 AM Gossip Grill

Drag +1

Sassy Sunday Funday

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Party +1

$6.50 Happy Hour Food

7:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

$6.50 Well Cocktails

7:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

Monday, Sep 28

1 event

Gay Play Tuesday

diversionary.org

Tuesday, Sep 29

1 event

Live Music with Ria & Rayme

diversionary.org

Live Show +1

Wednesday, Sep 30

2 events

Gay Speed Dating (Ages 25+)

11:30 AM Négociant Winery

Trivia Night!

diversionary.org Free entry

Cabaret

Thursday, Oct 1

3 events

Tim Burton Trivia

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1

CatHaus Burlesque & Pole Dance Revue

1:00 PM Rich's

Cabaret

The Oasis

diversionary.org

Cabaret +1

Friday, Oct 2

2 events

Polyphonic Cabaret

diversionary.org

Live Show +1

Big Queer Foodie Fest

Festival +1

Saturday, Oct 3

9 events

Stitch N’ Bitch (Queer Craft Meet-Up)

2:00 AM Lestat's

Community

Online

San Diego Saturday Night Online Speed Dating Ages 35-50 Speed Rounds

3:39 AM MV69+3G Coronado Free entry

Community

Queer Parents and Families Park Social

10:00 AM

Community

Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion

12:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Club Night

RIQUEZA! BURLESQUE, DRAG & MORE

12:00 PM Queen Bee's Art and Cultural Center

Drag +1

Bear Night OCT 3

2:00 PM EQ San Diego

Queer Tango Class + Practica

6:00 PM Yoga One

San Diego Gay Professionals Only Speed Dating

8:37 PM MRJ6+P8 Coronado Free entry

Art Date with Derrol

diversionary.org

Sunday, Oct 4

3 events

Third Annual Gobble Gala: Red Light District

8:00 AM Gossip Grill

Karaoke Sunday

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Party

$6.50 Happy Hour

7:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

Tuesday, Oct 6

1 event

Don L. Live!

diversionary.org

Community

Wednesday, Oct 7

2 events

Online

LGBTQIA Virtual Open Peer-led Grief Support Group - MyGriefAngels.org

3:00 PM

Community

Malik Gaines: I Folk with It

diversionary.org

Live Show +1

Thursday, Oct 8

3 events

Dark Disney Trivia

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1

San Diego Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Speed Dating

6:00 PM Cork & Stem $15

Women / Sapphic

Autumn Classic LGBTQIA+ Softball Tournament

All day

Friday, Oct 9

1 event

October Healing Through Artplay Workshop!

12:00 PM ArtReach San Diego

Community

Saturday, Oct 10

2 events

DUELING DIVA DJs

7:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Mosaic Theatricals’ 2026 Cabaret Series

diversionary.org

Live Show +1

Sunday, Oct 11

3 events

Red Dress Party: Official Recovery Brunch

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Party

Babette’s Bingo

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Drag

The Pink Palace Drag Brunch

5:00 AM Saya Brasserie

Drag

Tuesday, Oct 13

2 events

ShowTunes Dinner Theater Divas

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $10

Drag

SDFC Pride night

Pride

Thursday, Oct 15

4 events

Trick or Treat Trivia

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1

Paint N Sip - Drag Queen hosted Nude Figure Painting with a DJ

12:00 PM Wicked West

Drag +1

Inaugural LGBTQIA+ Educators Networking Event

San Diego City College

Community

Out at the Museum

Friday, Oct 16

3 events

SDGMC: Legends Never Die

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $35

Cabaret

STAR LUST with DJ Shimmer

1:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Club Night

PFLAG San Diego: TWO EYES Screening

diversionary.org

Film Screening

Saturday, Oct 17

1 event

Halloween Market Pop Up

5:00 AM Gossip Grill

Sunday, Oct 18

3 events

Disney Gay Brunch

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

$6.50 Happy Hour Food

7:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

$6.50 Well Cocktails

7:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

Monday, Oct 19

2 events

Gayme Night

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Pride Point Network - LGBTQ+ Professionals October Mixer

11:00 AM Gossip Grill

Pride

Tuesday, Oct 20

1 event

$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Wednesday, Oct 21

1 event

Dreamgirls Revue

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill 15

Drag

Thursday, Oct 22

1 event

Witches & Wizards Trivia

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1

Friday, Oct 23

4 events

San Diego Halloween 2026

2:00 PM

Freak Show

2:00 PM EQ San Diego

SlaughterHäus

3:00 PM The Rail

Fifth Annual Boo Bash

Party

Saturday, Oct 24

2 events

Pride Out Pickleball - Social & Open Play

11:00 AM Barnes Tennis Center

Pride +1

Boolesque: Halloween Burlesque

12:00 PM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $15

Drag +1

Sunday, Oct 25

1 event

BOO Brunch

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Drag

Monday, Oct 26

1 event

EXP.Lore

10:00 AM Gossip Grill

Party

Tuesday, Oct 27

1 event

SPOOKetti & ShowTunes: Dinner Theater Divas

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $15

Drag

Wednesday, Oct 28

1 event

Screamgirls Revue: Halloween Special

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Drag

Thursday, Oct 29

1 event

Night of 1000 Horror Movies: Trivia

11:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $1

Saturday, Oct 31

1 event

Bubbles for Brunch: Halloween Special

4:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $25

Drag

Friday, Nov 6

2 events

Martini Happy Hour

8:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $7

SKYY Bottle Service Special

9:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Saturday, Nov 7

4 events

Lesbians of San Diego Staged Play Reading "Coming Out Stories"

6:00 AM First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego

Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Club Night

$10 Pitchers

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $6.50

Sapphic Saturdays

10:00 PM

Women / Sapphic

Sunday, Nov 8

2 events

Sassy Sunday Funday

6:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill

Party +1

Karaoke Sunday

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill Free entry

Party

Thursday, Nov 12

1 event

Online

Do Something: Identity(ies) International Virtual Conference

Saturday, Nov 14

1 event

IMHO Live: Part 2

10:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $30

Drag +1

Sunday, Nov 15

2 events

Pokémon Drag Brunch

3:00 AM Urban Mo's Bar & Grill $20

Drag

Hillcrest Honors 2026

Community

Friday, Nov 20

1 event

UNZIP SAN DIEGO - The Fanny Pack Popup Party

2:00 PM The Brass Rail

Party

December 2026 · 1 event open ▸

Fri 25 RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage ›

March 2027 · 5 events open ▸

Fri 5 RuPaul's Drag Race - San Diego › Fri 5 RuPaul's Drag Race Werq the World Tour › Sat 6 Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion › Sat 13 DUELING DIVA DJs › Fri 19 STAR LUST with DJ Shimmer ›

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LGBTQ+ Events in San Diego

This weekend

Monday, Sep 21 Today

Grief and Loss — Discussion Group (Virtual)

Gayme Night

HERstories: LGBTQ+ Women's Social Group

Tuesday, Sep 22 Tomorrow

HIV & STI Screenings

Men's RVTIP — Relationship Violence Treatment & Intervention

Temptation Tuesday

Future-Proofing Your Life Science Toolkit

$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti

Ascension Lounge

Karaoke Tuesdays With Joey Adams

Wednesday, Sep 23

Shades of Color — Discussion Group (In Person)

SBYC Wednesday — Ages 10-13 (In Person)

Dreamgirls Revue

Red Wine & Vibes: PAINT YOUR DATE!

Mischief

Bingo with Tom Abbas

Thursday, Sep 24

Twilight Trivia

The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party

Big Fat Gay Rave: San Diego Edition

Karaoke Night

Friday, Sep 25

Martini Happy Hour

SKYY Bottle Service Special

Dinner with Dolly & Friends

Drageteria - Lady Gaga Vs Madonna Drag concert!

RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage

Out & Abt SD: 2010s Party @ Urban Mo's!

Out & Abt: Queer House Dance Party

OMG: A Gay Afters

Saturday, Sep 26

Women's Birding Guided Walk

Bubbles for Brunch

Queerqxrl: Day Party

Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust

$10 Pitchers

Wine Club: Uncorked & Unhinged

CumUnion

FFOSD Monthly Play Party

Sunday, Sep 27

Cabaret Drag Brunch

Sassy Sunday Funday

$6.50 Happy Hour Food

$6.50 Well Cocktails

Monday, Sep 28

Gay Play Tuesday

Tuesday, Sep 29

Live Music with Ria &#038; Rayme

Wednesday, Sep 30

Gay Speed Dating (Ages 25+)

Trivia Night!

Thursday, Oct 1

Tim Burton Trivia

CatHaus Burlesque & Pole Dance Revue

The Oasis

Friday, Oct 2

Polyphonic Cabaret

Big Queer Foodie Fest

Saturday, Oct 3

Stitch N’ Bitch (Queer Craft Meet-Up)

San Diego Saturday Night Online Speed Dating Ages 35-50 Speed Rounds

Queer Parents and Families Park Social

Country Western Night &#8211; Kickers Reunion

RIQUEZA! BURLESQUE, DRAG & MORE

Bear Night OCT 3

Queer Tango Class + Practica

San Diego Gay Professionals Only Speed Dating

Art Date with Derrol

Sunday, Oct 4

Third Annual Gobble Gala: Red Light District

Karaoke Sunday

$6.50 Happy Hour

Tuesday, Oct 6

Don L. Live!

Wednesday, Oct 7

Live Music with Ria & Rayme

Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion

Babette’s Bingo