Workshop “How do I know what I want?

How do I actually know what I want during sex? Do I even have to want anything? Do I have to know that? And if so: Do I communicate it? And how? Is there a will to want?We will deal with different levels of wanting and with ways to find out more about our wanting. What does our personal wanting, our desire and longing, need to show itself? Instead of the dogma “You have to know what you want,” we open up a space where uncertainty, shyness, and experimentation are just as welcome as urgent desires and long-held fantasies.In addition to input, there will be playful elements and space for exchange among participants. How much you reveal about yourself is, of course, always up to you. Workshop facilitation: Joris Kern (no pronouns) Joris has long been concerned with consent and sexuality and has been giving workshops on topics related to consensual sexuality since 2009. Joris is also a mediator and coach, has dealt with various bodywork methods and contact improvisation, has acted in theater and studied theater education, has further trained in solution-focused therapy and counseling with traumatized clients, and has written two books on consensus as a way of life. “Sex, but right” and “Consensus culture” – also available in our online shop.