LGBTQ+ Events in San Diego
Upcoming gay events, parties and nights out
199 upcoming events
Oct 2026 – May 2027
This weekend
Tuesday, Oct 20 Tomorrow
13 events
4:00
Margarita and Mezcalita Specials at The Loft
The Loft
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7:00
Papi Hour at Baja Betty's
Baja Betty's
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7:00
Tequila Tuesdays at SRO
SRO Lounge
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7:00
Happy Hour
Gossip Grill
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10:00
$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
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10:00
Taco Tuesday at Baja Betty’s
Baja Betty's
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11:00
H
Heather Hardcore & Guests
The Rail,3796 Fifth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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11:30
A
Ascension Lounge
Ohmazing Art of Healing
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12:00
Karaoke Tuesdays With Joey Adams
gossipgrill.com
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12:30
Tiger's Pictionary and Late Night Karaoke at Number One Fifth Avenue
Number One Fifth Avenue
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13:00
S
Sanctuary DNB Tuesdays
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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13:15
H
HATHA FOUNDATIONS NAKED YOGA at Healing Space Ocean Beach
Healing Space,2183 Bacon St, San Diego, CA 92107, USA
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Don L. Live!
Free entry
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Margarita and Mezcalita Specials at The Loft
The Loft
›
7:00
Papi Hour at Baja Betty's
Baja Betty's
›
7:00
Tequila Tuesdays at SRO
SRO Lounge
›
7:00
Happy Hour
Gossip Grill
›
10:00
$8 All You Can Eat Spaghetti
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
10:00
Taco Tuesday at Baja Betty’s
Baja Betty's
›
11:00
H
Heather Hardcore & Guests
The Rail,3796 Fifth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
11:30
A
Ascension Lounge
Ohmazing Art of Healing
›
12:00
Karaoke Tuesdays With Joey Adams
gossipgrill.com
›
12:30
Tiger's Pictionary and Late Night Karaoke at Number One Fifth Avenue
Number One Fifth Avenue
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13:00
S
Sanctuary DNB Tuesdays
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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13:15
H
HATHA FOUNDATIONS NAKED YOGA at Healing Space Ocean Beach
Healing Space,2183 Bacon St, San Diego, CA 92107, USA
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–
Don L. Live!
Free entry
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Wednesday, Oct 21
22 events
4:00
Seltzer Special Wednesdays at The Loft
The Loft
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7:00
Gonewild Wednesdays - Happy Hour at SRO Lounge
SRO Lounge
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9:00
Fetish Wear Night at The San Diego Eagle
San Diego Eagle
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11:00
Dreamgirls Revue
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
15
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11:00
Bingo Gone Bonkers: Trick Or Treat
gossipgrill.com
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11:00
B
Burly Bear Yoga at AWOL Back Patio
AWOL,1475 University Ave #1469, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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11:00
B
Big Gay Trivia at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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11:00
BOYTOY Wednesdays at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
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11:30
F
FRANKEN-STUFFIE: A Sip, Snip & Stitch Craft Night at Negociant Winery
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12:00
Where to Be Wednesdays at Pecs
Pecs Bar
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13:00
Dive Bar Wednesdays and Trivia at Number One Fifth Avenue
Number One Fifth Avenue
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13:00
Detour Wednesdays at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
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13:00
Whiplash Wednesdays at The Brass Rail
↳ The Brass Rail
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14:00
TGIW!
gossipgrill.com
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14:00
D
DRESS CODE Wednesdays at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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14:00
W
Welfare Wednesdays at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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15:00
Mischief
Rich's San Diego
Free entry
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15:00
M
Mischief Wednesdays at Rich's
Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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Bingo with Tom Abbas
diversionary.org
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Red Dress Party San Diego
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–
T
The Alliance San Diego Presents: 2026 Harvest Howl
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Buy One Get One Lockers at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
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Seltzer Special Wednesdays at The Loft
The Loft
›
7:00
Gonewild Wednesdays - Happy Hour at SRO Lounge
SRO Lounge
›
9:00
Fetish Wear Night at The San Diego Eagle
San Diego Eagle
›
11:00
Dreamgirls Revue
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
15
›
11:00
Bingo Gone Bonkers: Trick Or Treat
gossipgrill.com
›
11:00
B
Burly Bear Yoga at AWOL Back Patio
AWOL,1475 University Ave #1469, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
11:00
B
Big Gay Trivia at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
11:00
BOYTOY Wednesdays at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
›
11:30
F
FRANKEN-STUFFIE: A Sip, Snip & Stitch Craft Night at Negociant Winery
›
12:00
Where to Be Wednesdays at Pecs
Pecs Bar
›
13:00
Dive Bar Wednesdays and Trivia at Number One Fifth Avenue
Number One Fifth Avenue
›
13:00
Detour Wednesdays at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
13:00
Whiplash Wednesdays at The Brass Rail
↳ The Brass Rail
›
14:00
TGIW!
gossipgrill.com
›
14:00
D
DRESS CODE Wednesdays at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
14:00
W
Welfare Wednesdays at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
15:00
Mischief
Rich's San Diego
Free entry
›
15:00
M
Mischief Wednesdays at Rich's
Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
–
Bingo with Tom Abbas
diversionary.org
›
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Red Dress Party San Diego
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–
T
The Alliance San Diego Presents: 2026 Harvest Howl
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–
Buy One Get One Lockers at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
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Thursday, Oct 22
25 events
4:00
Wine & Champagne Specials Thursday at The Loft
The Loft
›
7:00
Happy Hour
The Gossip Grill
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7:00
Martini Thursdays at SRO Lounge!
SRO Lounge
›
10:00
Latinos Unidos – Spanish Support Group (In-Person)
Latin@x Services at The Center
Free entry
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10:00
W
Wine About It - $8 Glasses of Wine at Uptown Tavern
Uptown Tavern,1236 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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10:30
Phonebank with The Center – 2026 November Midterm Elections
$50
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11:00
Witches & Wizards Trivia
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$1
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11:00
$4 Thirsty Thursdays
gossipgrill.com
›
11:00
Trans Femme Support Group
Free entry
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11:00
Karaoke Thursdays at the Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
11:00
T
Trivia Night at Storyhouse Spirits
Storyhouse Spirits,1220 J Street
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11:30
J
Jazz Night in the Cellar at Negociant Winery
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12:00
B
BITCHY BINGO Wednesdays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
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12:00
T
The Divas! Thursdays at Lips
↳ Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
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12:00
T
The Traitors Watch Party at R Place
R Place,1027 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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13:00
BearUnion
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13:00
T
Toxica: Featuring Vanessa Vanjie Mateo at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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14:00
Seance at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
14:00
Bald Eagle Night at the SD Eagle
San Diego Eagle
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14:00
P
POP ROCKS at Rich's
Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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14:00
R
REVERB Thursdays at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
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Karaoke Night
diversionary.org
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Brut: Halloween
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SlaughterHäus
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–
FALL 2026 HUMP! Film Festival – Night 1
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Wine & Champagne Specials Thursday at The Loft
The Loft
›
7:00
Happy Hour
The Gossip Grill
›
7:00
Martini Thursdays at SRO Lounge!
SRO Lounge
›
10:00
Latinos Unidos – Spanish Support Group (In-Person)
Latin@x Services at The Center
Free entry
›
10:00
W
Wine About It - $8 Glasses of Wine at Uptown Tavern
Uptown Tavern,1236 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
10:30
Phonebank with The Center – 2026 November Midterm Elections
$50
›
11:00
Witches & Wizards Trivia
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$1
›
11:00
$4 Thirsty Thursdays
gossipgrill.com
›
11:00
Trans Femme Support Group
Free entry
›
11:00
Karaoke Thursdays at the Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
11:00
T
Trivia Night at Storyhouse Spirits
Storyhouse Spirits,1220 J Street
›
11:30
J
Jazz Night in the Cellar at Negociant Winery
›
12:00
B
BITCHY BINGO Wednesdays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
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12:00
T
The Divas! Thursdays at Lips
↳ Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
›
12:00
T
The Traitors Watch Party at R Place
R Place,1027 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
13:00
BearUnion
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13:00
T
Toxica: Featuring Vanessa Vanjie Mateo at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
14:00
Seance at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
14:00
Bald Eagle Night at the SD Eagle
San Diego Eagle
›
14:00
P
POP ROCKS at Rich's
Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
14:00
R
REVERB Thursdays at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
–
Karaoke Night
diversionary.org
›
–
Brut: Halloween
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–
SlaughterHäus
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–
FALL 2026 HUMP! Film Festival – Night 1
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Friday, Oct 23 Friday night
24 events
4:00
Beer Draft Special Fridays at The Loft
The Loft
›
5:00
Circle Jerk - $15 Lockers at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
›
9:00
Martini Happy Hour
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$7
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10:00
SKYY Bottle Service Special
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
10:00
H
House Head & Flashback Friday at Urban MO's
Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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12:00
G
Glitz and Glam Fridays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
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12:00
L
Leather Weather - SD Bootblack and Leather Gathering at AWOL
AWOL,1475 University Ave #1469, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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12:00
F
Friday Movie Nights at Rocko's Modern Taphouse
Rocko's Modern Taphouse,3940 Fourth Ave Ste 200, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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13:00
D
Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego - The Ultimate Drag Experience
The Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego
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13:00
C
Club X Cocktail Mixer at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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13:00
S
Sapphic Spaces Halloween Party at SD Made Factory
San Diego Made Factory,Made Factory, 2031 Commercial St #114, San Diego, CA 92113, USA
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13:00
S
Seduction Fridays at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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14:00
RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
14:00
Finger Me Friday
gossipgrill.com
›
14:00
E
Electro Pop! at Rich's
Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
14:00
R
Rush Fridays at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
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15:00
Freak Show
EQ San Diego
›
15:00
Slaughterhäus: The SD Cut | San Diego (21+)
The Brass Rail
›
19:00
🏳️🌈 LGBTQ Pride Comedy Show 7:30 Showtime
Mic Drop Comedy
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23:30
S
San Diego Naked Yoga - (Steel Mace Flow) at Vinya Vino + Vinyasa
San Diego,6185 Balboa Ave, San Diego, CA 92111, USA
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–
Fifth Annual Boo Bash
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–
Latine Pride 2026
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–
Circuit Papi
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–
Festival Mictlan: Celebration of the Underworld
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Beer Draft Special Fridays at The Loft
The Loft
›
5:00
Circle Jerk - $15 Lockers at Club San Diego
Club San Diego
›
9:00
Martini Happy Hour
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$7
›
10:00
SKYY Bottle Service Special
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
10:00
H
House Head & Flashback Friday at Urban MO's
Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
12:00
G
Glitz and Glam Fridays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
›
12:00
L
Leather Weather - SD Bootblack and Leather Gathering at AWOL
AWOL,1475 University Ave #1469, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
12:00
F
Friday Movie Nights at Rocko's Modern Taphouse
Rocko's Modern Taphouse,3940 Fourth Ave Ste 200, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
13:00
D
Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego - The Ultimate Drag Experience
The Drag Queen Party Bus San Diego
›
13:00
C
Club X Cocktail Mixer at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
13:00
S
Sapphic Spaces Halloween Party at SD Made Factory
San Diego Made Factory,Made Factory, 2031 Commercial St #114, San Diego, CA 92113, USA
›
13:00
S
Seduction Fridays at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
14:00
RAWR: w/ Jinx Mirage
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
14:00
Finger Me Friday
gossipgrill.com
›
14:00
E
Electro Pop! at Rich's
Rich's,1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
14:00
R
Rush Fridays at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
15:00
Freak Show
EQ San Diego
›
15:00
Slaughterhäus: The SD Cut | San Diego (21+)
The Brass Rail
›
19:00
🏳️🌈 LGBTQ Pride Comedy Show 7:30 Showtime
Mic Drop Comedy
›
23:30
S
San Diego Naked Yoga - (Steel Mace Flow) at Vinya Vino + Vinyasa
San Diego,6185 Balboa Ave, San Diego, CA 92111, USA
›
–
Fifth Annual Boo Bash
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–
Latine Pride 2026
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–
Circuit Papi
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–
Festival Mictlan: Celebration of the Underworld
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Saturday, Oct 24 Saturday
26 events
3:30
D
Dragalicious Brunch Saturdays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
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4:00
Bubbles for Brunch
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$25
›
4:00
Beer Bucket Special Saturdays at The Loft
The Loft
›
5:00
Karaoke Saturdays at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
7:00
Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
7:00
$10 Pitchers
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
›
7:00
$
$10 Pitchers Every Saturday and Sunday at Urban MO's
Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
7:30
Wine Club
gossipgrill.com
›
7:30
Wine Club: Uncorked & Unhinged
The Gossip Grill
›
9:00
Disco T-Dance at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
10:45
G
Glitz and Glam Saturdays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
›
11:00
Pride Out Pickleball - Social & Open Play
Barnes Tennis Center
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12:00
B
BOOlesque at Urban MO's
Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
13:00
CumUnion
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13:00
G
Gothic Moon Halloween Party at Kava Collective
Kava Collective,1731 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
14:00
Boolesque: Halloween Burlesque
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$15
›
14:00
Sapphic Saturdays
gossipgrill.com
›
14:00
La Bomba at Number One Fifth Ave
Number One Fifth Avenue
›
14:00
Brief Encounters Underwear Night at Pecs
Pecs Bar
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14:00
D
DJ Jaefusz at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
14:00
D
Disco Slut at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
14:00
S
Saturdays at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
15:00
Sabados En Fuego - Latin Music All Night at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
15:00
Underwear Party at the San Diego Eagle
San Diego Eagle
›
21:00
FFOSD Monthly Play Party
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King of Drag – Watch Party
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Bubbles for Brunch
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$25
›
4:00
Beer Bucket Special Saturdays at The Loft
The Loft
›
5:00
Karaoke Saturdays at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
7:00
Saturdays w/ Dj Miss Dust
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
›
7:00
$10 Pitchers
↳ Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
›
7:00
$
$10 Pitchers Every Saturday and Sunday at Urban MO's
Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
7:30
Wine Club
gossipgrill.com
›
7:30
Wine Club: Uncorked & Unhinged
The Gossip Grill
›
9:00
Disco T-Dance at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
10:45
G
Glitz and Glam Saturdays at Lips
Lips,3036 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104, USA
›
11:00
Pride Out Pickleball - Social & Open Play
Barnes Tennis Center
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12:00
B
BOOlesque at Urban MO's
Urban MO's,308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
13:00
CumUnion
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13:00
G
Gothic Moon Halloween Party at Kava Collective
Kava Collective,1731 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
14:00
Boolesque: Halloween Burlesque
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$15
›
14:00
Sapphic Saturdays
gossipgrill.com
›
14:00
La Bomba at Number One Fifth Ave
Number One Fifth Avenue
›
14:00
Brief Encounters Underwear Night at Pecs
Pecs Bar
›
14:00
D
DJ Jaefusz at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
14:00
D
Disco Slut at
EQ,1271 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
14:00
S
Saturdays at Flicks
Flicks,1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA
›
15:00
Sabados En Fuego - Latin Music All Night at The Brass Rail
The Brass Rail
›
15:00
Underwear Party at the San Diego Eagle
San Diego Eagle
›
21:00
FFOSD Monthly Play Party
›
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King of Drag – Watch Party
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Sunday, Oct 25
8 events
25
OCT
4:00 AM
BOO Brunch
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Drag
$20
25
OCT
4:00 AM
Cabaret Drag Brunch
gossipgrill.com
Drag
Cabaret
25
OCT
4:00 AM
Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays
gossipgrill.com
Club Night
25
OCT
4:00 AM
Plezier Service
$25
25
OCT
7:00 AM
Sassy Sunday Funday
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Party
Club Night
25
OCT
11:00 AM
Karaoke Sunday
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Party
Free entry
25
OCT
7:00 PM
$6.50 Happy Hour Food
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
25
OCT
7:00 PM
$6.50 Well Cocktails
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$6.50
Monday, Oct 26
3 events
Tuesday, Oct 27
3 events
Wednesday, Oct 28
3 events
Thursday, Oct 29
6 events
29
OCT
11:00 AM
Night of 1000 Horror Movies: Trivia
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
$1
29
OCT
1:00 PM
The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Party
Free entry
29
OCT
1:00 PM
Top Shelf Tease Presents: The Fetish Show
gossipgrill.com
Cabaret
Fetish
29
OCT
9:00 PM
Big Gay Haunted Rave
1051 University Ave San Diego CA 92103
29
OCT
All day
Unholy Halloween
Party
29
OCT
THE ROCKY HORROR SHOW by Prospect St. Theatre Co
Friday, Oct 30 Friday night
3 events
Saturday, Oct 31 Saturday
7 events
31
OCT
4:00 AM
Bubbles for Brunch: Halloween Special
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Drag
$25
31
OCT
4:00 AM
Smarty Pants Saturday Trivia Brunch
gossipgrill.com
31
OCT
1:00 PM
Costume Contest
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Free entry
31
OCT
1:00 PM
Noir Room Halloween Edition
31
OCT
1:00 PM
San Diego Halloween 2026
Q
31
OCT
6:00 PM
Queer Tango Class + Practica
Yoga One
31
OCT
Live Music with Ria & Rayme
Sunday, Nov 1
2 events
Wednesday, Nov 4
2 events
Thursday, Nov 5
2 eventsFriday, Nov 6 Friday night
1 event
Saturday, Nov 7 Saturday
5 events
S
7
NOV
1:00 AM
Stitch N’ Bitch (Queer Craft Meet-Up)
Lestat's
Community
7
NOV
6:00 AM
Lesbians of San Diego Staged Play Reading "Coming Out Stories"
First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego
Q
7
NOV
10:00 AM
Queer Parents and Families Park Social
7
NOV
11:00 AM
Country Western Night – Kickers Reunion
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Club Night
7
NOV
6:00 PM
Robby Hoffman: Live On Tour
The Observatory North Park
Live Show
Sunday, Nov 8
3 events
Wednesday, Nov 11
1 event
Thursday, Nov 12
5 events
12
NOV
9:30 AM
SEWcial Hour with Sew Loka
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
12
NOV
12:00 PM
The Traitors: New Blood Watch Party
Urban Mo's Bar & Grill
Party
Free entry
12
NOV
1:00 PM
Top Shelf Tease
gossipgrill.com
12
NOV
7:00 PM
Arrowhead
Party
Comedy
12
NOV
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