DILF London at Rae’s

Since its inception in 2015, DILF has become one of the UK’s most celebrated dance music parties for queer men, welcoming gay, bi, and trans men along with male-presenting non-binary folks. DILF runs parties across the UK, in Brighton, Dundee, Edinburgh, Glasgow, Gran Canaria, Leeds, Manchester and London.
The excitement is ramping up as DILF London sets up in The Members Club at Raes. The venue is steeped in clubbing history and has hosted some legendary nights.
Who is DILF London for?
DILF London is specifically designed for like-minded queer men looking for a space to connect and express themselves freely. Here, attendees are encouraged to be their authentic selves without any need for apology or performance. This inclusive environment celebrates queer joy, community, and meaningful connections, creating an atmosphere where everyone can thrive.
DILF London prides itself on nurturing a tightly-knit community with an intentionally limited capacity. This design choice ensures everyone enjoys an elevated experience, free from overcrowding. Raes has multiple rooms, each with a different vibe, giving partygoers intentional spaces to feel comfortable and at ease.
Every Friday night, the party comes alive with a carefully curated lineup of DJs spanning three rooms. DILF champions fresh talent and presents diverse musical perspectives. This ensures that no two nights are the same. To stay up to date with what’s happening, check the DILF Instagram for updates on weekly lineups.
To join the fun, you must first become a DILF member.
Membership is free but essential. The website has a dedicated members-only zone for storing tickets and updating personal details. Plus, members enjoy exclusive ticket rates and a customisable virtual membership card compatible with Apple Wallet.
The venue is conveniently located at RAES (formerly O’Meara) on O’Meara Street in London Bridge, just a short walk from London Bridge and Southwark Stations. With both stations open 24 hours on weekends, getting to DILF London is a breeze.
For entry, members must be 21 or older and present a matching photo ID, as strict security measures, including bag checks, are in place.
DILF prioritises a safe, enjoyable environment for all, with high demand and limited capacity, so that everyone has a memorable experience on the dance floor.